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Nor are they, so far as I can remember, ever described as being like Jack. |
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poor Michael must have thought his name was Mikethewickedone - the number of times the words were added to his name when he was really doing no more or less than any other young boy of his age. |
Lesley wrote: |
Joey was actually pregnant seven times- rather more than the norm nowadays, and possibly more than normal for the 1939 - 1953 period - but likely to be the norm for EBD's own frame of reference which was growing up at the beginning of the century. |
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But don't forget Joey and Jack were Catholics, and large families were still failry normal for Catholics in the forties and fifties. I certainly knew more than a few such families at my church and at school, both Catholic. And there are some women who just like being pregnant - and having young children around them. |
Joan the Dwarf wrote: |
And one last thing - Joey. It's always presented as wonderful that she can be wise and motherly one second and act like the triplet's friend the next. If she was my mother I would simply see her as completely volatile and not to be trusted. |
jennifer wrote: |
That's a good point - I think it could get erratic discpline wise, when one moment your mother is encouraging you to slide around the house on old carpets shrieking, and the next minute laying down the law over some infraction of the rules. |
Jennie wrote: |
And in real life, would schoolgirls really want such constant visiting from their mother? Or would they be hideously embarrassed by it? |
Karry wrote: |
Could EDB's disfunctional childhood and poor relationship with a strangefather be the reason she was unable to draw a picture of a responsible loving father? |
Jennie wrote: |
There's no-one quite like [EBD] for having an idea and overworking it. In 'Janie Steps In' Janie also does the bedtime confession bit, and I thought then that there was nothing quite like sending your children to bed with a load of guilt, and when Jo also does it, it's so bad as to be horrifying. |
Jennie wrote: |
I think that some of the things EBD describes are wish fulfilment. There's no-one quite like her for having an idea and overworking it. In 'Janie Steps In' Janie also does the bedtime confession bit, and I thought then that there was nothing quite like sending your children to bed with a load of guilt, and when Jo also does it, it's so bad as to be horrifying. |
Caroline wrote: |
From a Catholic POV (not being one myself), what do folks feel like after Confession to their priest? Calmed / uplifted / at peace with themselves by being forgiven / absolved of their sins? Or loaded on with guilt / shame / misery? Daunted by the penance required of them? |
Róisín wrote: |
I don't know if it's a Catholic thing (Janie isn't RC) or not. As a Catholic, I would say that the feeling after confession is relief and calm, not any of the negative things listed . |
Jennie wrote: |
As
for the children, Jo is presented as a caring mother who knows
instinctively when there is something wrong with her children, so poor
Len spends several hours giving Charles the entirely wrong treatment,
whilst the ever-motherly Jo sleeps peacefully until awoken by that same
daughter.
And we do see so many of EBD's fixations in her portrayal of life on the Platz, not just with the Maynards. For example, Len gives Charles hot milk, just what isn't needed before a general anaesthetic, and tries to soothe him to sleep. |
jennifer wrote: |
Doing it at age three seems excessive, but I don't think EBD had much of a grasp on early childhood development. She has excessively precocious three year olds, but also has ten year olds who still sleep in a cot, and eight year olds who can't bathe themselves. |
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