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Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 8:28 pm ]
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Matey is infamous in the Chalet School, and genereally thought to be a person more important than even Miss Annersley - despite her mysteriously changing name! She can quell anyone with a look, and even the staff hold her in awe. She is with the school from Austria through to the Swiss years, and is arguably the most famous Matron of the school.

What do you think of Matey? Is she really as scary as all that, or wouldn't you mind crossing her occasionally? Is she one of EBD's stronger characters, or do you think she is presented weakly? Why? Do you think it is realistic for her to re-join the school? What is her part in the school, and also the series? Is she simply there to scare unruly pupils and tend to illnesses, or does she play a bigger role, perhaps as a friend? Would you want her to look after you?

Idea by Alison H.

Author:  Alison H [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 9:44 pm ]
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Ooh, I forgot I'd suggested this :lol: . Matrons seem to have similar personalities in all school stories, in all TV dramas, and even in Carry On films :lol: - they're always formidable people whom you really wouldn't want to mess with but who have hearts of gold.

The Matron Lloyd/Gould thing is annoying, but I try to ignore it and just think of "Matey" as being the same person all the way through! Even more annoying are the constant references to Joey being her "heart's darling" annoy me - why does everyone have to be obsessed with Joey?

I do think that she's an interesting character, and I like the way we learn more about her in Excitements, and see a different side to her. It makes her more than just the stock school story Matron character doling out castor oil and catching people out of bed.

I would like to see her interact more with the other staff, though. I would think that it can be quite difficult for the non-teaching staff in a school, being slightly on the sidelines: Matey, like Rosalie, always seems to have an awful lot of work to do but never gets to do any of the fun things like going on expeditions or picnics. I feel particularly sorry for poor Nurse, who is never even dignified with a name, and even with Matron we get Jack Maynard being confused when he hears her referred to as "Gwynneth" because he's so used to everyone addressing her and referring to her as "Matey" all the time.

She's a really important character, partly because she's there for so long and partly because, without ever being the centre of any of them, she's involved in so many storylines. I feel quite sorry for her now that I've written all that, actually! She had so much to cope with, and she never seemed to get much support. Definitely an unsung heroine!

Author:  JB [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 9:11 am ]
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I do like Matey and, like Alison, I don’t worry about her surname.

I don’t think she’s too scary. When she has to deal with someone who’s ill, she’s very caring eg when Tom Gay is sent to bed for a few days soon after she arrives at the school. I’d love to be tucked by the fire in the san with some good books and Matey to look after me, unless I’d been at a midnight feast.

I found it perfectly realistic that she rejoined the school. She was happy there but had to take a job somewhere else when the school was in abeyance. That’s probably more realistic than all the staff who were able to spend a year without working.

She is a strong character who I wouldn’t say sees herself in a different position to the teaching staff. However, I don’t like the way she speaks to Nancy Wilmot in Challenge about Evelyn Ross. It’s disrespectful and a double standard – she wouldn’t have asked the same question of Hilda. I do find it odd that she’s allowed to remove girls from lessons if their drawers are untidy. I’d have been very unhappy if I was in the middle of teaching my class something new and one of them was called away, missing something important.

I would have loved to see her off-duty, eg on one of the half term trips. Do they ever allow the poor woman any free time? Even on Saturday evenings, she has to supervise miscreants who are turning sheets sides to the middle.

I love the bit in Shocks where she’s having a battle with the housekeeper about where the girls’ trunks should be left. It’s missing from the paperback but it makes me smile.

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'Oh !' Megan had no more ideas on the subject. 'A very determined woman is Matron, well, yes indeed.' And she went back to her own domain with no more ado.

Author:  Carrie A [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 1:45 pm ]
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I like the character of 'matey' and the fact that she is very down to earth and practical, as Hilda often says "for a good dose of common sense, commend me to matey". Everyone seems to trust her implicitly and she can easily be left in charge of the school or sections of it, even if things sometimes go wrong as in Carola storms the CS.
Actually in this book we are given a glimpse of matey being given some time off - when she chooses to have breakfast in bed and then having a day out by herself.

The confusion over how many/who are the matrons is annoying, but there does seem to be either black or white with the matron characters. They are either capable, loved/feared and indispensible like 'matey', Margot Venables, Barbara Henschell or they are 'fluffy little idiots' like matron Beasly or downright nastly like matron Webb.

I wonder if the female members of staff confide in matey when they are suffering with periods or other 'womens troubles'? How do the older female staff cope with 'the change' for example and does matey have a potion or a dose of something to prescribe for them? Does she have the woman to woman talk to them before marriage for example? After all many of them don't have mothers or close female relations.......

Author:  MaryR [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 3:30 pm ]
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Matey has the kindest heart in the world, under that gruff exterior, as we see more than once in the books. I'm sure the other staff trusted her enough that they revealed stuff they wouldn't reveal to anyone else. After all, she saw them at their lowest and worst. She's one of the main characters in my long saga New Dreams, and is an invaluable and understanding support for Hilda in her grief, as I am sure she was in EBD's world.

Author:  Mel [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 4:18 pm ]
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Matey is a character that grows with the series, rather low key in the Tyrol books until New House, I think, when she plays a more significant role, with Jo's toothache, Matron Besley etc and it could be then that we discover that Jo is 'Matron's Darling.' She has the iron discipline beloved of EBD, common sense and expertise. However, by the end of the series, when she has four underlings, all trained nurses presumably, I wonder what she does all day. Also by that stage, as with Joey, her abilities take on magical/preternatural proportions. In one of the Swiss books, a girl is restless at night, loses her bed covers, and had Matey been in the building (she is away for some reason) she would have heard her and dealt with the problem. This is in a school now of 300+ pupils, sleeping in separate Houses with their own matrons!

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 6:35 pm ]
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Mel, you're making me imagine Matey the Insomniac, who just prowls the corridors all night looking for someone in trouble so she can feel needed, with all of the Nurses to do her job now.

I like Matey, but I would never have stayed around her long enough to find that out if I were actually a character! The smallest telling off can scare me rigid (I'm the world's biggest coward) and I imagine Matey would have been a personification of that fear! I would certainly hate to be ill and, like many other girls in the series, would do everything I could to hide it.

Author:  Pat [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 7:30 pm ]
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By the time of the Swiss books Matey would be going through the change. She's probably suffering from hot flushes/night sweats, and that's why she's so easily woken at night! Horrible things that keep you awake for ages!

Author:  Elle [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 7:49 pm ]
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JB wrote:
I do find it odd that she’s allowed to remove girls from lessons if their drawers are untidy. I’d have been very unhappy if I was in the middle of teaching my class something new and one of them was called away, missing something important.


That would drive me mad, and as a teacher I think would stand up to Matron at that point and not allow it. They should tidy their draws in their own time, and not miss lessons. This is something that irritates me in real life, I frequently refuse to let students out of my class for other teachers, it probably doesn't make me popular, but I want them to pass their History exams!

Author:  Nightwing [ Thu Jul 30, 2009 9:56 pm ]
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While I love Matron I'm not sure I'd like her in real life. There's a lot about her "Spartan treatment" of sick girls, because petting them would only make them play up; but personally, I'm always miserable when I'm sick (and generally homesick for my Mum) and I can't imagine anything worse than also being told that I'm a 'nuisance' for getting sick!

I get the impression that matrons were pretty fearsome creatures; I can only assume that EBD herself stood in awe of those she had met in real life, considering the role of the matrons in her books! Giving Matey a secret affection for Joey is, I think, aimed at making her more human, even if it does make the adult reader role her eyes and wish Matron had a secret affection for anyone but her!

Author:  andydaly [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 2:08 pm ]
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The time she comes in and kisses Eustacia goodnight after she has cried herself to sleep I find really moving, and for that alone, I liked Matey as a character. I remember a couple of teachers who were strict as all get out in school, and girls talked about getting into trouble with them in the same horrified tones as the Chalet girls talk about getting into trouble with Matey, but I was fonder of them than many others who were not so strict.

Author:  Liz K [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 3:24 pm ]
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ChubbyMonkey wrote:
...............(I'm the world's biggest coward)...........


You can't be, ChubbyMonkey, I am!!!!!!!! :roll: :wink:

Author:  Catherine [ Sun Aug 02, 2009 7:53 pm ]
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She was lovely with Cornelia in 'New' when Corney finds out that Mademoiselle isn't coming back. She's very comforting and understanding. I think perhaps that side of her character happens more 'off scene' and that she was well able to judge which girls needed a 'brisk, no-nonsense' attitude as opposed to sympathy and understanding. Isn't she described somewhere as 'nippy but awfully understanding'?

Author:  Fiona Mc [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 3:10 am ]
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I really like Matey and her no-nonsense attitude. I could see her not suffering fools gladly and would give any malingerer short thrift. However she has shown herself to be extraordinarily kind to anyone genuinely unwell and will spend time with girls that need it. As Catherine pointed out she was lovely with Corney when Mademoiselle was ill and she was really nice to Tom and tried to get to the bottom of her problems without being horrible over it all and was sympathetic. It is also said in one of the latter books that any girl wishing to follow in her footsteps, said she was wonderful at helping them sort out their career choices and talking about the job to them. I think she was definitely someone who's bark was worse than her bite and the girls themselves knew it.

I do think it's interesting that the spineless jellyfish comment is always attributed to Matey not Matron Gould who actually said it in Jo Returns.

I do like the part about Matey's sister as I think it's a lovely peep into Matey's family

Author:  MJKB [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 2:37 pm ]
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Perhaps I'm being too cynical but I distrust those 'I always speak my mind ' types. I've often found that they can't cope when someone actually does it back to them.

Author:  Alison H [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 2:43 pm ]
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Does anyone ever answer Matey back? I'd like to've seen Nancy point out - in Challenge - that it was inappropriate for Matey to speak to her, the Acting Head, as she did.

Author:  Fiona Mc [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 3:32 pm ]
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MJKB wrote:
Perhaps I'm being too cynical but I distrust those 'I always speak my mind ' types. I've often found that they can't cope when someone actually does it back to them.


Being someone who tends to say what I think and speak my mind, I far prefer it when people are just as straight back to me. Mainly cos I don't get subtleties. If people want to say something to me don't beat around the bush cos I just don't get what you're trying to say. I'd say Matey probably enjoyed her reputation but would have respected anyone who could or did stand up to her, so long as what they said was sensible

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 4:07 pm ]
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I presume Madge must have stood up to her at some point. She doesn't like disobedient staff, after all, and she dealt with Matron Webb/Besly, so we know how intimidating she can be!

I wonder if that's why Matey came back to the school, because she knew they would respect her without being afraid of her.

Author:  Elle [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:16 pm ]
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There is one moment in Mary-Lou which shows Matron in a much softer way:

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Betsy, Katherine, Jean and Lalla duly picked their time for an advance on Matron and found her in a most complaisant mood. She made one stipulation - that no pins should be used. Everything had to be stitched and there must be no cutting of anything either. However, this was only what they had expected, so it did not worry them. Indeed, encouraged by her pleasant manner, Betsy plucked up the courage to ask, "Was it you who did it before -when the school was in Tirol, I mean Matron?"

Matron laughed. "Not I! I was off on a trip. It was Matron Gould who took over - Matron at Carnbach I mean. But I heard all about it, including Robin's mishap when I returned." Her face suddenly grew grave. "It's funny to remember now, but at the time we had no thought for funny things. That was the weekend that Mademoiselle Lepattre began that dreadful illness that finally ended her life. I remember Miss Annersley and I found her unconscious in her room on the Tuesday morning. She had been under the weather for some time, but none of use knew how really ill she was till then. Sir James Russell - he was Dr. Jem then - said that he had no idea how she managed to keep going for so long. She must have been in continual pain almost the whole term. I know that a good many of you girls who never knew her, rarely remember her," Matron went on, "but she had as much to do with the founding of this school as Madame had. But except when the Therese Lapattre Scholarship comes up, I don't think you people think about her."

"We never knew much about her," Betsy said humbly, "She died during the first or second year of the war, didn't she? I was only a tiny then. I wasn't even at school, I believe. I remember Julie telling Mummy about it, though."

"I don't want you girls to forget her," Matron said, still in that oddly softened mood. "I found some snaps of her today in a box I hadn't opened since we came out here and looking at them made me think she is in danger of being forgotten."

"Could we see them, please, Matron?" Katherine asked shyly.

Matron produced them and the girls looked in wonder at the somewhat plain Frenchwoman who smiled pleasantly at them from the faded snaps. What could there be about her to rouse the affection and respect in which Matey obviously held her. The lady, watching the young faces, guessed what they were thinking.

"No; she wasn't much to look at," she said as she took the photos back from Lalla, "but she was a saint, one of the unknown ones. Madame herself would tell you that if it had not been for Mademoiselle, she could never have done all she did. Now you must go or you'll get no work done. You may go to Miss Annersley and tell her that so far as I am concerned, you may have your party."

They went off, rather more serious than they had been, and Matron laid her snaps carefully away, then, being Matron, turned back to her work.


It was cut from the paperback, but I like it, and it makes Matron seem far more human.

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Mon Aug 03, 2009 10:09 pm ]
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I'd never read that quote, thanks Elle!

It certainly does make Matey seem much more human - it was nice that she felt she could share that with the girls, and it shows a different side to her. We don't hear a lot about the reaction to Mlle dying, but it must have been a shock to everyone. It's lovely to see that Matey still remembers her fondly (and nice to see a much softer side to Matey, though please don't tell her I said that!)

Author:  Fiona Mc [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 1:44 pm ]
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That was a lovely thing of Matey to do. I'm sure so many of the older staff didn't want her forgotton and there are a few comments in some of the Swiss books about it and that Tessa de Bersac is the image of her except she's pretty

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 5:09 pm ]
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I've never read that passage before, and it's a nice view of Matey. Isn't it a weird moment for EBD's obsession with looks to come up, though? It's a bunch of schoolgirls being shown old photos of a legendary school figure by someone who knew and obviously loved her (and who the girls are in awe of), and the girls' first thought is that she's plain and even Matey feels the need to say 'she wasn't much to look at', like it needs to be excused!

Would any schoolgirls, far less 'good' CS girls, really approach pictures of their beloved school's founder like they were the before part of a makeover programme?! :dontknow:

Author:  MJKB [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 6:42 pm ]
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Well, she was always a great contrast to Madge both with regard to age and beauty. I never read that excerpt before and I find it quite touching particularly the comment about Mademoiselle being one of those unsung saints.

Author:  MaryR [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:01 pm ]
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That passage is one of my justifications for the way I write Matey in ND. There are lots of much smaller hints if you read closely enough, though.

Author:  JayB [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 12:24 pm ]
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I do think Matey's sharp side is overdone at times. For example, in the passage quoted above, Betsy, who is Head Girl, and has known Matey as a family friend since she was a small child, has to 'pluck up courage' to ask a quite inoffensive question. (Although I do agree the rest of the conversation is lovely).

On the other hand, I think that Matey is treated with a lack of consideration by the others at times, especially considering that she is one of the senior members of staff, in terms of both age and time at school.

The giving up her Saturday evenings to supervise wrongdoers has been mentioned. In Exile, when Jo introduces Matey and Janie, she doesn't mention Matey's name, so Janie has to address her as 'Matron'. It's really quite rude of Jo; she should have referred to Matey as 'Miss Lloyd'.

Then in Highland Twins, I think, we learn that Matey's bedroom is also the room in which she sorts linen and interviews wrongdoers. Her bed turns into a sofa during the day. It seems quite wrong that someone who is one of the senior members of staff and a head of department should not have her own private space. Everyone else had a workspace separate from her bedroom. I don't think they were short of space at Plas Howell, were they? And even if they were, some other solution surely could have been found.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 1:00 pm ]
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Those are all really good points, JB. I sometimes think EBD couldn't decide if Matey was essentially a non-teaching staff member of equal standing to a long-serving CS mistress, or a sort of 'beloved' upper-servant/housekeeper type, whose free time is subject to endless erosion,, who hardly ever seems to get on expeditions etc, and who doesn't even seem to have a bedroom that is entirely her own. Even the fact she virtually never seems to get out of that starched uniform, even in the evening when the other staff have changed for dinner.

Plus the crusty side of her tongue, and the way she seems to have a dispensation to be sharp with everyone from the Juniors through Nancy Wilmot when she's Acting Head to Joey, also seems to me to line her up with various other sharp-tongued, good-hearted 'salt of the earth' characters like Grandma in Gay, or Richenda's nanny, whose bark is worse than their bite.

You're completely right about Joey seeming to downgrade her by not introducing her to Janie using her name and title, the way a middle-class woman of that time might have said 'Cook, this is Mrs Lucy. Mrs Lucy, this is our Cook, a treasure.' I know Joey always calls her 'Matey', but normally you wouldn't introduce someone only by a nickname it would be completely inappropriate for the new person to call them by...?

Author:  JayB [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 1:27 pm ]
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You're completely right about Joey seeming to downgrade her by not introducing her to Janie using her name and title, the way a middle-class woman of that time might have said 'Cook, this is Mrs Lucy. Mrs Lucy, this is our Cook, a treasure.' I know Joey always calls her 'Matey', but normally you wouldn't introduce someone only by a nickname it would be completely inappropriate for the new person to call them by...?

Actually, on looking up the passage, I see Jo does mention Matey's name earlier, when showing Janie round the school. (At that point she's Gould, not Lloyd). But it still would have been polite to say 'Miss Gould' when making the introduction, in order to make Matey's status and standing in the School clear. As it is, she doesn't introduce Matey to Janie at all, she just says 'This is Mrs Lucy, Matey.'

It's rude to Janie as well as to Matey, since she's left not knowing how to address her. She does then speak to her rather as if, as you suggest, she's a respected upper servant:
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‘I do so hope you will be happy here, Matron. Guernsey is the apple of my eye, you know. You must come to us on your free day...'

Author:  Sunglass [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 2:29 pm ]
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Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
Even the fact she virtually never seems to get out of that starched uniform, even in the evening when the other staff have changed for dinner.


I was only thinking about that reading Wrong recently - it's the bit where the Middles try ju-jitsu after bedtime, but when Matey goes to investigate they all pretend to be asleep, and they only know it's her because of the rustle of starch from her dress - and this is at night, well after Abendessen, which suggests she doesn't change for the evening like the mistresses.

It must have been quite odd to sit about in the staffroom in your starched uniform and cap, surrounded by other people all in semi-evening dress.

I never really thought about Matey as a kind of respected upper servant, but it does make sense. All that sharp-tonguedness even to senior colleagues and people in immediate authority over her, and continually hauling girls out of class to tidy their drawers, reminds me a bit of Morag the crusty housekeeper in Jean of Storms, who despite adoring her mistress, is always scolding and complaining, and asserting her authority by doing things like showing in visitors at awkward moments...

Or she's a bit like Enid Blyton's scolding but good-hearted servants, like Dorcas in Six Cousins at Mistletoe Farm, whose default mode is that everyone's a nuisance and makes work for her, even though she's devoted to the family.

Author:  andydaly [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 3:28 pm ]
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It seems to suggest that she's in the position of a housekeeper, doesn't it? I wonder does she have her evening meal with the rest of the staff, or does she have it alone in her sitting room? I can't remember reading about Matron being present at the evening meal. As Sunglass says, it would be really strange to be sitting there while everyone else was dressed in semi-formal evening wear, and you're dressed in starched dress and nurse's cap!

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 7:13 pm ]
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Perhaps Matey does always eat with the staff, but nobody ever realises because she looks so different out of uniform :lol:

I also agree that she seems to fulfill more of a servant role than a teacher. However, the Saturday night thing I think is quite similar to the teachers having to give up their free time to marking/ extra tutorials. I don't think that they necessarily see her as being below them, but the fact she isn't as "intellectual" as them - in that she doesn't have to teach the girls, just nurse them through colds etc - some of them could look down on her for (I don't, by the way!)

Author:  Thursday Next [ Fri Aug 07, 2009 8:47 pm ]
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In many ways she is much more a housekeeper than a nurse. When any of the girls are seriously ill it is Nurse who takes over the care of them rather than Matey and when Matey is missing for some reason (can't remember whether it is for illness or some other reason) then one of the girls who wants to be a motel keeper who takes over much of her job.

There is no suggestion that any of the Matrons have any medical training at all as far as I remember.

Author:  Carrie A [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 10:47 am ]
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She also has to organise all the linen etc - even when she attends the 6th form party in New Mistress she uses the game where they have to make something out of the materials given, to make some new slips for the linen cupboard in St Therese House! It doesn't say whether or not matey was in her uniform, although she did produce a pencil out of a pocket - which rather suggests that she was!

Author:  JB [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 11:37 am ]
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Thursday Next wrote:

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There is no suggestion that any of the Matrons have any medical training at all as far as I remember.


On recent reread, I noticed a reference to Matey having had "special training" which related to the girls with relatives at the San. I'd never noticed it before and I can't find it again now! I think it was in one of the St Briavels books when Hilda is musing that, when the school moves to Switzerland, its links with the San will strengthen again.

Matey does straddle the line between domestic staff, nurse and teaching staff, I think.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 12:22 pm ]
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andydaly wrote:
I wonder does she have her evening meal with the rest of the staff, or does she have it alone in her sitting room? I can't remember reading about Matron being present at the evening meal.


It's very grim to think of her always eating alone because she's kind of stranded between the teaching staff and the domestic staff proper!

Does she sit in the mistresses' common room in the evenings? I flicked through a couple of books looking for this, but noticed that in the ones I had nearby (Three, Wrong) when there was some kind of post-Abendessen, pre-staff bedtime emergency, when Matey happened to be with other mistresses rather than summoned from her room, the gathering seemed not to be in the mistresses' common room, but in the Head's study. In Three, she's shown having night-time coffee with Bill and Hilda, but in the library, just the three of them. In the jiu-jitsu incident in Wrong that someone else brought up, she's talking about Katherine Gordon to Bill and Hilda and some other mistresses in the study when she hears the noise from Wallflower.

I don't know if that's just accidental, or if the implication is that she doesn't use the mistresses' common room...?

I also noticed too in Three that when Clem and Mary-Lou are found out, and Mary-Lou put to bed to in the San, 'Nurse' only appears belatedly to sleep in the San to keep an eye on her -

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Miss Wilson came in with Nurse, who had been in the staff-room at the other side of the house.


Does that suggest that the 'staffroom' (rather than the mistresses' common room) is for domestic staff, where Karen and the maids spend free time, and that Nurse's 'place' is there? Still not sure where that leaves Matey, though.

Author:  Alison H [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 7:11 pm ]
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I do feel sorry for Nurse - EBD doesn't even dignify the poor woman with a name!

Barbara Henschell and Margot Venables both work as matrons at the school, and it's hard to imagine a CS Old Girl and certainly - heaven forfend - Jem's sister doing a job which put them more on a par with the "servants" than with the teaching staff, but Matey's position is definitely ambiguous. Rosalie, who isn't a member of the teaching staff either, seems to be on much closer terms with the mistresses that either Matey or Nurse are.

Author:  Mel [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 8:11 pm ]
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I think staffroom/common room are interchangeable with EBD. Probably Matey goes there to knock back the occasional coffee, but would not spend a lot of time there as she would have lots of prowling to do, she wouldn't be one to loll about smoking, playing cards or reading Just William. There could be Middles up to no good, needing hot milk/sedatives/extra blankets/feeling bilious etc.

Author:  Nightwing [ Sat Aug 08, 2009 11:19 pm ]
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I think Matron also holds herself apart a little from the teaching staff, which might be part of the reason she doesn't quite fit in with them. The fact that she treats adult women like they're children at times probably doesn't help - it would be hard to be friends with someone who bosses you about like that, even if you're friendly towards them!

There's also that scene where Matey says to Jack that there's "no one left to call me Gwynneth now". It does seem odd that people who have known her for twenty-odd years should still call her 'Matron', but then, I assume that she has never asked anyone to call her Gwynneth before. Even Joey didn't call Bill by her first name until she was asked to.

Author:  Alison H [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 8:09 am ]
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IIRC, Jack tells her that there are plenty of people to call her Gwynneth if she'll let them. That suggests, as you say, that she held herself apart - possibly because she was worried that they would see her as "less" than a member of the teaching staff.

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 8:29 am ]
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Maybe she felt that she had to, because of her job. After all, she was responsible for them when they were ill, and quite frequently in such a situation she would need them to be obedient to her to get better. If they were on first name terms that might be more difficult.

Or, perhaps, she just doesn't want to be friendly with the staff - if she disliked one or two of them, I can imagine it being difficult to be friendly with any of them, as they are all so close-knit.

Author:  Emma A [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 11:27 am ]
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It strikes me that Matron is actually a very self-contained and private person, keeping most people at a distance. The snippets of information about her suggest that by the middle part of the series and afterwards, she is friendly really only with Miss Annersley and Miss Wilson, and is most comfortable with them. It's stated several times that Joey is Matron's "heart's darling," but that she would never let anyone else know this: a characteristic of someone who finds it very difficult to show any emotion, or just thinks it's better not to (which of course begs all sorts of questions about her life before the school, I think).

Is it ever suggested that Matron is young when she arrives at the school? Because that's never the impression which comes across. It may be that by the Swiss years, most of the staff are a good deal younger than she is, and she can't help seeing them as a generation younger than she is, and might explain why she keeps herself rather "apart" from them.

Author:  Lesley [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 12:04 pm ]
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I think, when they first move to Plas Howells, we see, from Gwensi Howell's POV, that Matey is the oldest, so she may well have found it more difficult to blend in with the others.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 12:47 pm ]
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If that is how EBD intends us to read Matron's apartness - that it's not to do with her ambiguous status in the school, just her natural desire as a private woman who prefers to keep herself to herself - then it must be virtually the only time in the entire CS universe where EBD allows someone not to join in all the time and be a full part of the CS community...? I've always found it a bit unrealistic, anyway, that a community of women who range from their early 20s to nearly retirement age, and with varying degrees of authority and seniority over one another, all spend almost their every spare moment cooped up together on the Platz apparently entirely happily - especially when lots of the middle-aged and younger mistresses, and people like Rosalie Dene and Joey, first knew the older ones as their own teachers. It's kind of a relief to see someone allowed to opt out, if that is what EBD meant.

On the staffroom/mistresses' common room thing with Nurse from up the thread, I read the 'staffroom', where Nurse has been, as it's implied that it's on the opposite side of the house, and that Bill has had to go specially over there to get her, as not the same as the mistresses' common room, but a separate off-duty room for the domestic staff. I was wondering if the (presumably medically-trained?) Nurse used the domestic staffroom to sit in in the evenings, whether that implied Matron would also use it?

I now quite like the idea of Nurse, Karen and Matey playing poker together in the evenings...

Author:  JennieP [ Sun Aug 09, 2009 8:39 pm ]
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Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
I now quite like the idea of Nurse, Karen and Matey playing poker together in the evenings...


Drabble, anyone?

Author:  mohini [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 6:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women: "The" Matron

I wish matron was shown to be more approachable and kind not always stern.
When I am ill I expect some sympathy at least initially. Specially when you are having fever or pain a kind word and a sympathetic touch works wonders.
I wish she was more motherly.After all, the juniors were very small just 9 or 10 year old living away from their parents for the first time. It would have been difficult for them and on top of that if Matron scolds you for falling ill ...
Matron should be someone to whom the girls should not be afraid to tell their problems.Here if anyone falls or hurts herself, the first thing which comes in the mind is not I should go to Matron but what will matron say. They should have full confidence in Matron that she will make the pain go away.
The other things about Matron being strict in making beds the correct way or keeping the drawers clean or doing mending correctly is ok.

Which remind me does everyone makes the bed the matron's way? Are the mattresses really humped in the middle for airing?

Author:  Alison H [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 7:53 am ]
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I'm afraid that my mattress just stays where it is - the only time I've ever lifted it up was when it started getting a bit saggy and, having looked into the price of a new one and been utterly horrified thereby, decided just to turn it over!

Author:  JB [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 8:20 am ]
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Is it possible to "hump" a modern mattress? Even if so, I can't imagine it being much good for the springs. Our bed is the comfiest i've ever slept in but we certainly don't go throwing the mattress around.

I wonder what Matey would have made of fitted sheets and just duvets as a covering?

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 9:29 am ]
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Goodness, I recoil in horror to think of what Matey would say about my bed! I don't like sheets, it takes too much time to make a bed with them, but I do have two duvets - a "winter" and a "summer" one. Depending on the weather (yes, I do still have the "winter" one to sleep under, but I like that because it's thick and cuddly and inducive to lie-ins) I have one as a replacement sheet and one as a duvet. It's far comfier than a sheet, and they tend to hold themselves in place enough that the edges just need tucking in occasionally.

I don't know that it would do the springs all that much harm to hump a duvet. I have slats that lift up to support me - invaluable with a bad shoulder - which puts the mattress in a very awkward position, but it's held up well and continues to do so. I do turn it regularly (i.e. when I remember/have the energy) although with less enthusiasm since I found a spider on the other side and had to scream for help - the spine was getting uncomfortable!

I've just read that back and realised how lazy I sound :oops: Matey really wouldn't like me.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 10:17 am ]
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I assume the mattresses the girls had to hump would have been horsehair or feathers, or something quite light and 'humpable' (if that doesn't sound too rude)? More like a less heavy, more flexible version of a single futon pad than what we think of as a mattress.

Certainly, even allowing that our bed is a large double, and our mattress a massively dense and expensive affair because we're both fanatic about nicely firm beds, it takes us both (and military precision!) to turn it. A fragile CS girl would have been found pinned under it in her cubey on Matron's rounds.

I know what you mean. Mohini, about wishing Matron would lay off the tough-guy stuff a bit sooner - I'd rather dispense with the occasional kiss and 'Poor little soul!' at moments of crisis and have someone just be slightly nice to me when I'm feeling unwell, rather than hiding her heart of gold under gruff talk...

But I think EBD would be actually a bit suspicious of someone who was immediately verbally entirely sympathetic, unless something very bad was involved - she goes more for the bracing kind of intervention, even when it's kindly intended. I get the impression she thinks that if Matey was immediately kind to people who reported sick, girls would do it too much/fake it/become clingy spineless jellyfish...? Her scolding is supposed to be good for their souls like her nasty astingent tonics or something...?

Author:  Mel [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 11:01 am ]
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They had plumeaux didn't they, but I guess they would have had a sheet under it as well as a bottom sheet. IIRC they are called duvets in New.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 2:04 pm ]
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Incidentally, on the Matron status thing, what about this in Rivals:

Quote:
... then the Saints’ mistress came up, and, at sight of her, Miss Maynard stopped. ‘Why, Gertrude!’ she exclaimed in surprise.
The lady looked. Then she came swiftly across the ground. ‘Mollie Maynard!’ she cried. ‘Why, what are you doing here?’
‘The same as you, I imagine—teaching. I am senior mistress at the Chalet School.’
‘Oh, I’m only matron at St. Scholastika’s,’ replied the other.


That 'only' might suggest that being a matron is lower-status than being mistress (or I suppose it might just be that Miss Maynard had said, I would have said in a slightly show-offy way, that she was 'senior mistress' at the CS...) But than Matron Rider seems to be an old friend (or schoolmate, maybe?) of Miss Maynard's, and given that MM isn't exactly at the bottom of the social scale, it would seem slightly skewed for a friend of hers to have a definitely low-status job - like it seems odd for Barbara Henschell or Margot Venables...

Author:  Sarah_G-G [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:23 pm ]
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Could that not be because Miss Maynard is senior mistress as opposed to just mistress though? I think I always read that as Miss Maynard being a senior member of staff rather than "just" a matron/ mistress. So, maybe head matron would outrank a junior mistress but a senior mistress would be considered superior to a junior matron. Isn't Miss Maynard pretty much third in charge at this point in the series, behind Madge and Mademoiselle?

Author:  LizzieC [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 11:10 pm ]
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Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
That 'only' might suggest that being a matron is lower-status than being mistress (or I suppose it might just be that Miss Maynard had said, I would have said in a slightly show-offy way, that she was 'senior mistress' at the CS...)


I've always read that passage differently, in that Matron Ryder(?) is saying she's only matron meaning the only one they have at the school. I suppose I've been reading it wrongly, but I didn't really think about it in any other way until just now. :?

Author:  Mrs Redboots [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 4:36 pm ]
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mohini wrote:
I wish matron was shown to be more approachable and kind not always stern.
When I am ill I expect some sympathy at least initially. Specially when you are having fever or pain a kind word and a sympathetic touch works wonders.
I wish she was more motherly.After all, the juniors were very small just 9 or 10 year old living away from their parents for the first time. It would have been difficult for them and on top of that if Matron scolds you for falling ill ...

Compared to real-life school matrons of that era, she is a paragon of sweetness and light! At the school I was at if you went to Matron (we didn't actually address ours as "Matron" but as Miss or Mrs Whoever) with something wrong with you (even an ingrowing toe-nail!), they would ask if you had your period, and if you did, that was deemed to be the cause of the problem; if you didn't, then nothing was wrong! Unless you had a high fever, an obvious cold or were actively throwing up.... and then you were a nuisance and packed off to the San asap to be out of the way.

Quote:
Which remind me does everyone makes the bed the matron's way? Are the mattresses really humped in the middle for airing?

Don't forget, these weren't the sprung or foam mattresses we know today, but horrible hard horsehair things. Jolly uncomfortable to sleep on! We didn't hump ours in the middle, but were (I think) expected to fold them over to let air get at the underneath, and I have a feeling we turned them at the end of the week when we changed the sheets (top sheet to bottom, clean top sheet & pillowcase).

Author:  AngelaG [ Wed Aug 19, 2009 12:37 pm ]
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Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
I now quite like the idea of Nurse, Karen and Matey playing poker together in the evenings...


This makes me think what did Nurse do all day? We often hear of Matey supervising unpacking, sorting out linen, doing juniors' mending, dosing girls, dealing with everyday bumps and accidents and prowling the corridors at night but nurse is only called in when girls are seriously ill e.g. Julie Lucy's peritonitis. And yet she stays with the school for years from the Tirol days. Maybe she did some moonlighting on the side.

She must have yearned for an outbreak of measles to give her some nursing to do.

Author:  Nightwing [ Wed Aug 19, 2009 9:43 pm ]
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AngelaG wrote:
And yet she stays with the school for years from the Tirol days.


Considering she hasn't even got a name, we don't actually know that - I like to think that there was a long line of interchangeable female cousins who kept taking the post from each other, with no one at the school any the wiser.

Author:  Alison H [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 12:46 am ]
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It does say somewhere that she'd been with the school since Tyrol days (although I can't actually remember her ever being mentioned in the Tyrol books!). I think it's when Julie has peritonitis, and Bride calls Nurse "Nursie" which seems a rather odd thing for a girl of 17 or 18 to say but does suggest that she's known Nurse for a long time.

Author:  JB [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 10:23 am ]
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Is there a mention of Nurse in New House? Isn't that the time when the school gets a proper san (do they call it that?) at St Clares?

It would be logical for them to have a nurse then as the san is separate to the rest of school, so it'd be difficult for a matron to look after that as well as her regular duties.

Author:  hac61 [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 12:06 pm ]
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Point made by my friend:

Does Nurse not have a name because she is "a" nurse that is imported from the San when needed? (That's "The San".)

At least, that's how we would manage it. :)


hac (and friend)

Author:  Alison H [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 12:18 pm ]
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Slightly OT, but why did none of the many CS girls who trained as nurses ever end up working at the San? Surely Jem and Jack would have been only too eager to employ wonderful CS girls ... or maybe they thought that CS girls'd be too busy chasing after the doctors to do any work :lol: . There's a mention of someone - one of Gay Lambert's friends? - wanting to work at the San, but nothing ever comes of it.

Author:  ChubbyMonkey [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 4:49 pm ]
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Well, they'd know they weren't hiring spineless jellyfish - I don't imagine you'd want one of them in surgery, they'd get goo everywhere - but if they had been trained properly they'd be forever sitting on single doctor's desks, tossing hair and moaning about how tight their uniforms were.

Either that, or Jack and Jem were afraid that really good CS girls would embarrass their doctors.

It would have been really interesting to see Daisy working in the San., and trying to battle the gender constraints I imagine there would have been at the time, as well as trying to establish herself in her own right and not have everyone saying she was there just because she was related.

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