The CBB
http://www.the-cbb.co.uk/

The lot of CS-Land Servants
http://www.the-cbb.co.uk/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=7931

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Fri May 28, 2010 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  The lot of CS-Land Servants

These thoughts have come about after reading a post in 'lines unlikely ... ' in Anything Else. Someone suggested that Joey might have said to Anna to have a day off while she and Jack had a family day with the children, as an inprobable line.

So I've been thinking about servants and maids (to be used interchangably in this thread) in CS-School Land, and I'm taking as a given that times were different than now. I wonder what we can learn about Elinor and her views of the people she considers of a different (read 'lower'!) class than the main CS characters. And because I'm reading Janie of la Rochelle at the moment, I'll be using evidence from that book to support my ideas, as well as situations from the main-line CS series.

So here goes. In Janie, we have the newly-married Janie setting up home with her husband, Julian. They have two maids, Bonita and Michelle, both of whom are young, although we don't know how young. When the honeymooners return home, the maids have been 'hustled' into hiding by Pauline (who is living with them) to allow them to enter their home alone. We're told that

Quote:
Bonita and Michelle peeped shyly round the door to utter soft words of congratulation.


Here we have the first indication that Elinor thought of maids as 'other' - almost not quite human? It chimes well with something written in Camp:

Quote:
Such music had rarely been heard at the Baumersee, and it carried far on the still night air. By twos and threes the people from the farms crept up through the woods, and peeped between the trees at the sight so strange to them.


It makes me think of a David Attenborough natural history programme. Imagine - in a hushed voice he speaks ...

'And here we can see the creatures we have come to film. They have taken the bait of music and are approaching warily through the undergrowth and dark woods, listening, listening ... and when the music is gone, they flee, back to safety. What a magnificent sight, never before filmed, of these rare, exotic creatures!

In Janie, too, we have the situation when she is sobbing about the poor health of Julian's Grandmother. There is no attempt to stifle her sobs in case the maids hear her - this too suggests that maids are seen as 'other' - not quite human. In a house where sounds are heard by all we might imagine that one would hide one's grief from those not connected with the situation, but here we have Janie not troubling to hide her grief (and it's never referred to in conversation with Michelle and Bonita, so it can't be because she intends to explain to them) from her maids. It can only be because the thoughts of the maids aren't important and Janie and Julian have no need to explain themselves to the girls. While I understand this on one level - there is no need to explain oneself to one's employees, on another level to act in a way that might give rise to curiosity suggest that those who might be curious actually aren't worth bothering about. I've expressed it very harshly, but I hope you understand what I mean ...

Anyway, to return to Janie. Michelle (poor thing!) has to tell Janie that they need potatoes.

Quote:
'Why didn't you tell me this morning, Michelle?' ... Michelle had nothing to say to that, so Janie gave her the money and told her what to get, adding, 'And hurry up, Michelle. It's Bonita's Saturday, and if you're late you'll have to wash up your own tea-things - remember that'.


Now, first, surely washing up one's own tea-things isn't an arduous task? Then the very explicit instructions given to Michelle by Janie suggest that if she hadn't been given complete instructions something would have been omitted. This gives us the impression that maids are unable to think for themselves or to use their own intelligence or initiative. And considering that the error (that Michelle didn't tell Janie that potatoes were needed) isn't serious and is easily resolved it appears rather unecessary for Janie to ask Michelle why she wasn't told about it earlier - it's redundant.

Like all CS-Land maids and servants, Bonita and Michelle are always smiling and 'adore' their mistress. Anna, too, is smiley and adoring of Jo. As is Gertlieb, the Mensches' maid who the Bettanys meet when they spend Christmas with the Mensches. And we're given a brilliant descrition of the life a maid:

She brings in a huge jug of hot water for the visitors to wash with, she brings in the hampers containing their clothes, she brings in the food at meal-time, although it's served by the hosts. She must be a strong woman since hampers and water are both heavy - I would have thought that Gottfried, the son, could have carried the heavy loads more easily.

We're told that Gertlieb is 'a good girl' by her mistress and she, too, is always smiling. When Joey awakes at eight on Christmas Eve, Gertlieb has been up since five thirty in order to make breakfast for the family who were up at six, and they have all done most of the 'ordinary housework'. It's unsuprising really, that they all have spotless houses gelaming with all that polishing! Then

Quote:
Gertlieb smiled at them - she never seemed to do anything else but smile - but she went on steadily with her work. There was a great deal to do to-day, for all the mincepies which would be eaten tomorrow had to be made.; and Frau Mensch had suddenly been seized with a fear that there would not be enough sausages, so there were more to be prepared, and Gertleibe must work if she wanted her tow hours in the afternoon, when she could go to the market and buy gifts for the little brothers and sisters at home.


Bonita and Michelle, too, have their time managed for them. Julian has to go into work early and he and Janie are discussing early breakfast.

Quote:
''But if it's going to make too much work for you, I can easily cancel our arrangements'.
... 'It won't hurt Michelle and Bonita to get up at six for once; and I rather like it, once I'm up'.


Julian's concern is only for his wife - Michelle and Bonita are there to do their bidding so are not considered and are even talked about as though they usually sleep in late. Because of their early morning the girls are sent ot bed early in the name of 'I'm considering you and making sure you get the rest you need', but it's more about ' this is what I need and I need to be sure you can deliver' ...

And I don't quite understand why the two of the them have to get up so early. They are expected to get up an hour and a half before Julian - that's 3 man-hours early. What do they do in all this time, please?

I work for a delightful gentleman who has a tricky wife. Having paid she believes that she then owns the person she has paid. The two full-time carers have to do all the catering for the large family as well as their heavy care load. She regularly tips up the bin all over the kitchen floor to see if the bin itself is clean - which it always is, leaving the mess for the carers to clean up. It's this belief - that having paid someone you then own them, that seems to be prevalent in the CS books. A lot of it is probably because Elinor had little personal contact with people of a different class, and so is only able to write of them in relation to the needs of her characters. We are never given an inkling about what the servants might have thought about things, or that they might have actually had lives of their own.

In Janie, Julian's Grandmother tells them about a time when her maid ricked her ankle and was unable to do the doorstep. She says:

Quote:
We had a good nurse for the baby, but she refused to do the doorstep.


!!!!!!!!!! I am so gald that this woman had the strength of character to say 'no'!!! Again - it's a case of 'we've paid you, we own you, this is what we need'.

If we take as a given that those were the ways of the time, what does it tell us about those times, and about Elinor herself? In CS-Land all the mistresses are fair and kind and considerate and all the servants adore their mistresses. smile and are very happy to do whatever is required of them, at any time, in any way. What do you think?

Author:  MJKB [ Fri May 28, 2010 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
f we take as a given that those were the ways of the time, what does it tell us about those times, and about Elinor herself?


I've enjoyed reading this, and I think I can safely say I haven't read anything on the board that deals exclusively with the 'help'. In some ways, Agatha Christie's appallingly snobbish attitude towards servants in her books, which includes portraying them as some adenoidal, brainless subspecies, is to be preferred to the pathetically grateful mistress adoring sycophants created by EBD, and Anna is the embodiment of this. Does anyone remember if Anna ever goes on holidays (apart from accompanying the clan to Tyrol), or takes a day off. Is she ever even sick? She doesn't seem to have or even to want any 'me' time, but is always at the complete disposal of her 'adored' mistress. Even at night, she is expected to sleep in with or next door to the younger children, and lest she should get any ideas above her station, she is shunted into a tiny crawl space which is accessed by a ladder no less, in Die Blumen! All this servitude for the bliss of working for such a wonderful family.
Anna should be to Joey what Susan is to Anne in AOI, a faithful worker and companion, who feels she is a vital part of the family. Susan, too, is a bit too good to be true, and a bit too adoring of her surrigate family, but at least Anne treats her like an equal and is a mutual friend of Susan's friends. They gossip together with Miss Cornelia and, most significantly, eats with the family.

Author:  Llywela [ Fri May 28, 2010 3:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

We do occasionally hear of either Anna or Rosli getting a day off - usually because Joey then has to get someone else to babysit, because heaven forfend she should have to care for her own children for a day with only one servant to help.

It's the family holidays to Tirol that get me - this is Anna's home town, her whole family are there, and since she never gets more than a day off at a time (usually more like an afternoon), she never gets to see them. Ever. She grew up in this town, it must hold so many memories for her. Yet during the books recounting holidays there - usually entire summers - she is lucky to be given so much as a day to go visiting her family, and Joey usually manages to make even that much sound remarkably benevolent. Even when Jack and Joey take their family out exploring for the day to see the sights - sights Anna must know and love as well - she doesn't get to go with them, or to have the day off to spend revisiting old haunts herself, because she has to stay and look after the babies. She has the most thankless job in the world! Poor Anna.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Fri May 28, 2010 4:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I always think it's instructive to look at how the 'ideal' servants differ from the 'un-ideal', for EBD. If the ideals are Anna, Gertlieb and Janie Lucey's Michelle and Bonita, then we get the un-ideal in Lavender:

Quote:
The next moment there was a tap at the door, and then Gwladys-from-the-hill-farm came in to announce with her usual sniffle, “A lady to see you, Miss.... Will I tell the shuvver to come to the kitchen, Miss?”
Miss Wilson sighed inwardly. Gwladys never would have suitable manners for a parlour-maid; but they were lucky to have anyone at all these days. A club foot and short sight had prevented her from being in any of the Women’s Services. Their bright, pretty little Guernesiaises maids who had come with them when the school had evacuated from Guernsey had gone long since. Michelle and Rhoda were in the W.A.A.F., and Annette and Olivette had joined the W.R.N.S.; while Dulcie was driving a motor-lorry.


So the CS is slumming with Gwladys from the hill farm, and her improper pronunciation of French words and the disabilities that prevented her from going into the services like the other maids. One wants to point out that Gwladys probably wasn't thrilled with having to be a servant either!

And the bit about the Chesters' servant situation in Janie Steps in always makes my blood boil:

Quote:
'Anne got a young girl of fifteen and did most of the housework with her help as well as having complete charge of Babs. Beth had to give a hand with the twins and Nancy and she’d never done such a thing before. Then that girl—Lily, her name was—turned out to be the most awful thief and Anne had to shunt her at a moment’s notice. It was months before they got another maid—they either refused to come or else wanted the earth in wages.

They’ve had Dulcie rather more than a year now. You’ve seen her, so you can imagine what she’s like. She’s devoted to them and she never minds work, but she’s as dull as they come. I’d go crackers if I had to manage with just her!’

‘Oh no, you wouldn’t!’ Nan retorted. ‘You’d hustle round and try to get something into her. I know you now!’

Janie suddenly relaxed and grinned. ‘You’ve got something there—if Dulcie was capable of taking anything in. Julian says she’s splendidly allergic to brainwork of any kind. She can barely read or sign her own name and I doubt if she can do much more than add. Anne never dares to send her on an errand where she’ll have to bring home change. Any one could cheat her and she’d never know it.’


There seems to be considerably more sympathy for the Chesters being down on their luck than for the plight of their unfortunate maid of all work, who is stuck in a poorly-paid, dead end, tiring job because of her illiteracy - which may of course only be a lack of educational opportunities due to poverty. The thing Julian says about her being 'splendidly allergic to brainwork' always makes me want to throw something at his smug upper-class head.

I think EBD clearly likes pretty, bright, cheery servants who 'adore' their employers - interesting how she often uses that word for people who are further down the social scale, like Mademoiselle LePattre, who 'adores' the Bettany girls when she's still a governess, Joey's Anna and various Tiernsee locals who likewise 'adore' Joey. Interesting that two of the feistier servants - Marie Pfeiffen in the early days of the CS, and Karen - are school servants, rather than employed by an individual family. So it's OK for Karen to scold Joey in Goes to the Oberland for letting the window open, but Anna could never take that tone with her!

The other thing that drives me mad about her portrayal of servants is that either they are stolid robots like Anna-the-faithful-handmaid, or inclined to a hysteria EBD seems to associate with a certain kind of servant - Rosa (when Sybil is kidnapped) and Rosli (when Win disappears) react in exactly the same hysterical way, and have to be 'brought to their senses' by their employers. Who presumably keep a cool head because of their well-bred sang-froid. :banghead:

Author:  MJKB [ Fri May 28, 2010 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
but they were lucky to have anyone at all these days. A club foot and short sight had prevented her from being in any of the Women’s Services. Their bright, pretty little Guernesiaises maids who had come with them when the school had evacuated from Guernsey had gone long since. Michelle and Rhoda were in the W.A.A.F., and Annette and Olivette had joined the W.R.N.S.; while Dulcie was driving a motor-lorry.


Well, I'm sure you'll agree that it wasn't very nice of Mr.Hitler to march into Poland, thereby forcing Britain to declare war on Germany and by so doing, depriving those nice people, the Chesters and the Luceys, of decent help. As for the short sighted, club footed Gwladys -from-the-hill-farm, shame on her for being born so disabled and her parents for providing such poor genes!

Author:  Mel [ Fri May 28, 2010 5:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

In School At Madge sighs as she compares Gertlieb with her smiling acceptance of two hours off for Christmas with their own, no doubt pert, maid at home, who wanted a whole day if not more. The trouble is, we are supposed to be on the side of the employers and 'tut' but even reading this as a child I was on the side of the English maid who wanted her time off. In Switzerland the maids at the school are 'ruled by Karen' and sleep in dormitories (pretty cubicles?) and are equally beaming/hysterical types. Would that be likely in 1950s Switzerland which had such a high standard of living?

Author:  Emma A [ Fri May 28, 2010 6:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'd say in the early days of the CS, EBD's attitude was fairly universal, judging by the fiction of the period, anyway! Some of Georgette Heyer's 1930s-set detective novels do have scenes told from the servants' point of view, and there's a fair bit of grumbling behind the scenes in 'Behold, Here's Poison', for example. Though there is outrage in that family when their parlourmaid is interviewed by a reporter and features in a newspaper after the master of the house is murdered, and she is fired forthwith for "impertinence".

Dornford Yates's novels (1920s to 1950s) seem to class English servants as devoted and intelligent - and often resourceful - (Carson, Bell, Therese, et al.), and the lower orders in general (unless they've been 'got at' by Communists) as respectful to their social superiors. His post-war novels are rather more cynical in tone, however. And although Lord Peter Wimsey often treats Bunter as a friend or colleague, his valet is very definitely not of the same social order, and neither of them would consider each other equals - it's very much a major-batman sort of relationship, I think.

AFAIK, in upper-class households in particular, servants were non-people. Servants didn't knock at doors, for example, since they couldn't be expected to either disturb or be disturbed by the occupant, and conversations would take place as though servants were not present and able to listen. The film 'Gosford Park' for example, shows very well how the upper classes regarded their servants - and also what the servants thought of their masters, too. Patricia Wentworth's books rarely include the servants-eye view, but there are quite a few old family retainers who speak their minds and won't be brow-beaten by their 'family', in fact quite frequently seeming to rule the roost! This is post-war, though, so probably reflects the greater difficulty keeping servants after the war than EBD expresses.

By the later CS books, I think EBD was getting ludicrously idealistic about the servant situation (as Alison H's memorable drabbles indicate!), and the attitude of her adoring servants is highly unlikely. Anna starts as a maid, doesn't she, but then seems to morph into cook, laundress, cleaner, nursemaid/nanny and dog-walker when more and more children arrive in the Maynard home.

Author:  sealpuppy [ Fri May 28, 2010 8:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I think EBD's perfect servants are her own fantasy maids. My mother-in-law (b1908) said her parents had a cook-general (which sounds excitingly military but wasn't!) and a nursery maid, together with a man to do the rough gardening once a week. Her father was middle-management so they were probably equal in 'rank' to EBD's family. So a few devoted slaves would have been heaven for EBD's mother, I should think.

Interestingly, Angela Thirkell (who can outsnob EBD any day, much as I love them both) has her 'ladies' admitting that life after the war, without a live-in servant & only a 'woman to do the rough', is bliss compared with having someone in the house all the time! :shock: Of course, Joey had her continental slaves so presumably British ones were much more bolshie!

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Fri May 28, 2010 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

sealpuppy wrote:
Interestingly, Angela Thirkell (who can outsnob EBD any day, much as I love them both) has her 'ladies' admitting that life after the war, without a live-in servant & only a 'woman to do the rough', is bliss compared with having someone in the house all the time! :shock: Of course, Joey had her continental slaves so presumably British ones were much more bolshie!


I used to live in the Middle East, where most western expats had a live-in maid to whom they paid an absolute pittance. I have to say I was absolutely appalled at the way ordinary working-class/lower-middle/ middle-middle class British people, who seemed perfectly benign in other ways, behaved towards Flipina and Sri Lankan women who were a long way from home, looking after other people's children, while their own were a long way away. Get any bunch of women together in a room and they'd start sharing stories of incompetence/greed/dishonesty/ingratitude/sexual misconduct (provocative glances at 'sir') etc.

The worst of it was that these people - many of whom, I'm sure, would have been the descendants of domestic servants in the UK - 'learned' how to deal with their domestic help this way from other expats, and prided themselves on no longer being 'taken for a ride', and 'wising up'. They would talk casually about 'keeping them on their toes' and replacing them every year or two in case they got 'too comfortable.' It was one of the most depressing things I've ever watched in action.

Which is a long way round of saying that this attitude isn't confined to the past - it seems to raise its ugly head whenever and wherever domestic labour is cheap.

Author:  RroseSelavy [ Fri May 28, 2010 8:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
It makes me think of a David Attenborough natural history programme. Imagine - in a hushed voice he speaks ...

'And here we can see the creatures we have come to film. They ahve taken the bait of music and are approaching warily through the undergrowth and dark woods, listening, listening ... and when the music is gone, they flee, back to safety. What a magnificent sight, never before filmed, of these rare, exotic creatures!


Thanks for this slice of genius, it made me laugh out loud :D I think this really does sum up EBD's view of superstitious & simple peasantry.

I wonder what Ros Lilley and Joan Baker, as the only two working-class girls to attend the CS, made of having servants around, and of the way they were treated?

As an aside, it actually feels slightly odd to use the word 'servant' - the connotations just jar too much for me.

Author:  sealpuppy [ Fri May 28, 2010 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
[Which is a long way round of saying that this attitude isn't confined to the past - it seems to raise its ugly head whenever and wherever domestic labour is cheap.


Yes, I came across this too, in the late 70s, when we spent a year in Egypt. We had a maid in the mornings from 8.00-2.00 and I nearly gave her a heart attack when, on learning that she had a small baby, I said blithely: 'bring her along with you, she can play with my own baby!' She had never heard of an employer making such an offer. (Though in my experience then, it wasn't the Brits who were so bad, it was the US oil-wives who also refused even to shop locally, buying everything from the 'Commissary'.)(Apologies if there's anyone on here of that ilk!)

Author:  Abi [ Fri May 28, 2010 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Even now, some friends of mine who visit Zimbabwe regularly say that the (white) people they were visiting were totally shocked and almost appalled when my friends picked up their plates and took them through to the kitchen for the maid - the notion of actually helping out or doing anything for themselves just hadn't occurred.

Author:  Alison H [ Fri May 28, 2010 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Thanks Emma :oops: :D .

Marie and Karen are great :D . However, even they're shown as being obsessively devoted to their employers: Karen brings Hilda's favourite biscuits to her for elevenses every day, and Marie is supposedly overjoyed at the wondrous gift of a CS group photo for a wedding present because it's a copy of one that Madge has got! I can just about buy the devotion in the early years because there was a lot of poverty in the area and steady jobs can't have been that easy to come by, and we're told that Marie considers herself lucky to be employed by Madge because she gets treated much better than friends who are in service elsewhere do (which ties in with Madge's thoughts about how little time Gertlieb is given off by the Mensches), but not in the later books.

The descriptions of Anna as a "faithful handmaiden" really grate on me, though, and so does the way that Gaudenz is sometimes shown as some sort of hulking village idiot. & the descriptions of Janie's maids drive me mad: they're patronising described as "little girls who were to help Janie with the work" - that makes them sound about 6, and it makes it sound as if the one actually doing most of the housework will be Janie!

It could just be because the Russells had a more formal household and also employed Rosa (although she was a nanny rather than someone doing housework), but Marie is always described as the Russells' housekeeper, whereas Anna, even in the late Swiss books when she would have been in her late '30s, is described as the Maynards' maid. I'd like to know why EBD did that.

MJKB, in one of the Swiss books we're told that Anna is going home to Tyrol for a few days. &, in a bit of Trials (or possibly Theodora) which was cut out of the pb, we're told that she's going to visit some friends for the afternoon but wants to take Felix, Felicity and Cecil with her :roll: .

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Fri May 28, 2010 10:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'm going off-piste again slightly - some of these posts have made me think of the wife of the gentleman I work for.

Quote:
Cosimo's Jackel saidThey would talk casually about 'keeping them on their toes' and replacing them every year or two in case they got 'too comfortable.'


This is what this lady (and she is no lady!) does. In all the years I have worked there she has gone through British agencies, then Australian, then New Zealand, South African, and now she's 'in' Poland. She gets herself such a bad name that the agencies cotton on and tell each other and she's unable to find more carers. These poor girls, many very young (Gappers) and all far from family support can wake up one day and simply be told to leave the house by that evening. That's usually when she's found someone she prefers and she wants to get them in quickly.
She has the 'skill' of being able to reduce young people to tears, leaving them believing that it is they who are in the wrong. I am very fortunate in not having to live there (I only go in twice a week for 3 hours), and I give all the support I can to the carers.

But in all my life I havenever met anyone like this woman, and I think that is why this subject has resounded with me ... although we are supposed to believe that the CS mistresses are lovely employers, when we look at how they talk about their maids, and how the maids are actually treated we see that in reality the situation is somewhat similar to the RL one in which I work.

Author:  MJKB [ Fri May 28, 2010 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
But in all my life I havenever met anyone like this woman, and I think that is why this subject has resounded with me ... although we are supposed to believe that the CS mistresses are lovely employers, when we look at how they talk about their maids, and how the maids are actually treated we see that in reality the situation is somewhat similar to the RL one in which I work.


It's really depressing to think that those attitudes have survived into the 21st century. I have a cleaner, Dahli, and I love her. Dhe comes to me for 3 or 4 hours once a week. I have been known to cry on the odd occasion that she couldn't make it. I honestly don't know what I would do without her. She has been with me since 2001 when I went back to uni to do a post grad. It took two years to complete and my husband figured that when I had finished, I'd have no further need for Dahli. I put it to him gently that if it was a case of Dahli or him, it would be no contest.
Dahli is from Georgia, and it's obvious that her life was incredibly hard.
She has about 200 words of English but we have our own way of communicating. I asked her about how she likes living in Ireland, and she told me that she is really happy here, and that life is better for her. Now, since she earns her living working as a house and office cleaner, and lives in a studio apartment in a fairly dodgy part of Dublin, I shudder to think of what her life was like in Georgia. I pay her a significant percentage of my net hourly rate, but she has told me that she earns less than half of what I pay her per hour in her other jobs. i think that says alot about how the world values traditional 'woman's work'.

Author:  Alison H [ Fri May 28, 2010 11:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

It would've been nice to see that sort of close relationship between either Madge and Marie or Joey and Anna. By the end of the series, Marie had been working for Madge for over 25 years - and Andreas had been working for Jem since they were both single - and they'd seen each other's children grow up, been through all the traumas of wartime together, and so on. Joey and Anna went through a lot together too, but we never even see them discussing the children, and we don't even see Anna's reaction when the telegram about Jack arrives during Highland Twins. There's a nice bit in Head Girl - cut by Armada - in which Jem says that he's glad that Marie and Andreas have got together, though. Admittedly he says that it's worked out well because it means Marie won't be leaving when she gets married, but he also says that Andreas will make her a good husband, which in a patronising way is quite sweet :D .

Author:  MJKB [ Sat May 29, 2010 7:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Marie may not have been quite as devoted to Madge as Anna was to Joey. When she married Andreas she split her loyalty between her employers and her husband. Fair dues to her that her choice suited her employers eminently. But Anna, that faithful factotum, is so dedicated to serving Joey and her family that she turned down a proposal of marriage, possibly in the belief that you cannot serve two masters! Well, with a 'wholesale' employer - Joey, you need a 'wholesale' employee - Anna.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Sat May 29, 2010 9:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

MJKB wrote:
Marie may not have been quite as devoted to Madge as Anna was to Joey. When she married Andreas she split her loyalty between her employers and her husband. Fair dues to her that her choice suited her employers eminently. But Anna, that faithful factotum, is so dedicated to serving Joey and her family that she turned down a proposal of marriage, possibly in the belief that you cannot serve two masters! Well, with a 'wholesale' employer - Joey, you need a 'wholesale' employee - Anna.


Yes - this is interesting, isn't it? What would have happened if Anna had married? Do we know what her prospective husband did? I'm assuming he wasn't another Andreas. In which case, would Joey have been happy for him to 'live in' in order to allow Anna to continue to do her job with the Maynards?

And somebody wrote (sorry - can't find it. Need coffee) that it's interesting to compare the 'good' servants with the 'bad', and their comparative characteristics. It made me think of Mr Flowers maid who chaperoned the girls when there was the hotel fire. She acted according to her 'class' (as set out by EBD) by screaming hysterically when they were attempting to escape from the furnace. The 'upper class' girls, however, proved their station in life by being calm under duress ... actually, that might make an interesting thread. Watch this space! But in terms of 'good' and 'bad' servants, what are their specific characteristics and how are those characertistics used to show us whether they are 'good' or 'bad'?

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sat May 29, 2010 10:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:

But in terms of 'good' and 'bad' servants, what are their specific characteristics and how are those characertistics used to show us whether they are 'good' or 'bad'?


The good ones never show up their employers by being ungainly or mispronouncing French words, and they are permanently smiling and grateful for their wages and time off, however small these are. They are magically absent unless specifically summoned, and they make it plain that they really work 'for love', rather than for a salary or a roof over their heads. They 'insist' on sleeping in the night nursery after a day of child care and housework, they are psychic enough to rise at dawn to make cakes and lemonade in case someone decides to go on a picnic. They frequently return early from a free afternoon, in order to demonstrate how over-generous their employers' allocation of time off was. They frequent cast looks of 'pure adoration' at said employer. And of course they turn down offers of marriage from superior devotion to the Family - in fact, their own lives are considerably less important than the family's comfort, from Gertlieb's getting time off to buy her family Christmas presents, to Anna's proposal, to Gwladys's club foot.

Also, the right kind of servant, or ex-servant picks up their employer's 'ladylike' ways and passes them on to their daughters, who then move up in the world, because they are not distressingly working class, have 'dainty' table manners and instinctively prefer 'soft' colours.

Author:  MJKB [ Sat May 29, 2010 5:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

:lol: :D

Author:  MJKB [ Sat May 29, 2010 5:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
The good ones never show up their employers by being ungainly or mispronouncing French words, and they are permanently smiling and grateful for their wages and time off, however small these are. They are magically absent unless specifically summoned, and they make it plain that they really work 'for love', rather than for a salary or a roof over their heads. They 'insist' on sleeping in the night nursery after a day of child care and housework, they are psychic enough to rise at dawn to make cakes and lemonade in case someone decides to go on a picnic. They frequently return early from a free afternoon, in order to demonstrate how over-generous their employers' allocation of time off was. They frequent cast looks of 'pure adoration' at said employer. And of course they turn down offers of marriage from superior devotion to the Family - in fact, their own lives are considerably less important than the family's comfort, from Gertlieb's getting time off to buy her family Christmas presents, to Anna's proposal, to Gwladys's club foot.

Also, the right kind of servant, or ex-servant picks up their employer's 'ladylike' ways and passes them on to their daughters, who then move up in the world, because they are not distressingly working class, have 'dainty' table manners and instinctively prefer 'soft' colours.


Brilliant!! I can't think of one more trait to add to the above.

Author:  tiffinata [ Sun May 30, 2010 9:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

a good servant would never dream of sending her daughter to the chalet school!

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Sun May 30, 2010 10:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Gosh - yes, you're right tiffinata. I wonder if any of them thought about doing that? What would have happened if they did manage to do it?

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sun May 30, 2010 10:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

tiffinata wrote:
a good servant would never dream of sending her daughter to the chalet school!


But it's OK if you're dead, having passed on your dainty ways, and the CS adopts your daughter, albeit initially to send her to the village school in a language she doesn't speak, because that's what you do with servant-class children.

It's also OK if your daughter is chosen as the deserving recipient of a CS scholarship, as long as you don't get swollen-headed and serve Mrs Gay home-made cake at your kitchen table in your homely ex-servant way - that way, it's obvious you're not scheming your way up the social ladder...

Author:  Alison H [ Sun May 30, 2010 10:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

With Reg, it's made clear that his grandfather was a doctor, so Reg will just be returning his family to their proper place in life. EBD just had to point that Reg had a grandfather for a doctor, rather than just show the Maynards helping someone who was "proper" working-class to attain the greatness of doctorhood :roll: .

James H Kettlewell's proposal letter always makes me laugh. How many well-to-do Yorkshire industrialists would write that drivel about "a high-up lady like you" :lol:?

(Sorry for being sarcastic, but ...)

Author:  MJKB [ Sun May 30, 2010 1:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Alison H wrote:
James H Kettlewell's proposal letter always makes me laugh. How many well-to-do Yorkshire industrialists would write that drivel about "a high-up lady like you" :lol:?


Ah, but surely you realise that all Yorkshire industrialists at the time would regard the Bettany girls as 'high up ladies', at least in EBD's view.

Alison H wrote:
With Reg, it's made clear that his grandfather was a doctor, so Reg will just be returning his family to their proper place in life. EBD just had to point that Reg had a grandfather for a doctor, rather than just show the Maynards helping someone who was "proper" working-class to attain the greatness of doctorhood

Apparently you can inherit doctoring because there is some kind of doctoring genes.

Author:  RubyGates [ Sun May 30, 2010 1:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Ah yes but James H Kettlewell is obviously a very well brought up man who knows his place in life!

Seriously though I was reading a recently published chick lit book where the plot revolves around two families who end up renting the same holiday villa for a week. They all decide to stay and make the best of things and one of the families has their Australian gap-year student/au-pair with them. Including the student there are eight people all together at the villa but her employer says to her "so you'll be cooking for seven instead of four" and I thought "well eight surely, or are they expecting this poor student not to be eating anything all week?".

Author:  Alison H [ Sun May 30, 2010 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I wonder how much of the snobbery in the books was to do with EBD's own background: for someone who wasn't from the top end of the social spectrum herself, she always seems very worried about it all! It's often the case that the worst snobs aren't so much people who are genuinely "posh" as people who feel that they've got something to prove. EBD's background was lower middle class, and maybe when she and her mother went up in the world when her mother remarried they felt that they had something to prove to their new friends and relations, and also they'd always've been worried about keeping up appearances over her (EBD)'s father doing a bunk.

Author:  cestina [ Sun May 30, 2010 2:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'm becoming gently riled by this thread :( I do think we are in danger of forgetting the period in which EBD grew up and the attitudes that were current then. She is very much of her time and she is writing about servants as they were viewed. Even lower middle-class families would have had a maid-of-all-work, possibly even living in, and not only children were meant to be seen but not heard when she was growing up. Servants certainly came into that category.

And in post Austro-Hungarian Empire Austria those attitudes were even more engrained. It was often girls from poor households in Bohemia that went into service in Vienna and other big Austrian cities; they were regarded as a chattel of the household. No, it doesn't make it right, but it is hardly fair to blame EBD for being of her time (Slightly off-topic - it makes her ability to distinguish between Germans and Nazis even more remarkable.)

In my view the CS servants did rather better than most.....

And to pull something in from the thread about the Upper and Lower Classes - if the church was teaching that everyone has their pre-ordained place and has to stick to it, I don't think one can blame the laity for following its teachings. That's not the only hymn containing similar sentiments.......

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Sun May 30, 2010 3:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

cestina wrote:
I'm becoming gently riled by this thread :( I do think we are in danger of forgetting the period in which EBD grew up and the attitudes that were current then. She is very much of her time and she is writing about servants as they were viewed.


Yes - you're right cestina. I had no idea to imply that Elinor was 'wrong' at all. She was, as are we all, products of the times in which we live, and therefore we accept without question many things at which following societies might be aghast.

Given that, I just found it interesting (I really must find a synonym for that word ... ) to consider the lot of servants and maids, especially as nowadays most people don't employ others to do that kind of work for them.

Author:  Alison H [ Sun May 30, 2010 3:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

It would have been very difficult to manage a house the size of Die Rosen without servants, in the days before hoovers, washing machines, etc. Imagine the amount of washing that 7 kids under the age of 6 would have generated :shock: .

Author:  cestina [ Sun May 30, 2010 3:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Alison H wrote:
Imagine the amount of washing that 7 kids under the age of 6 would have generated :shock: .

Good heavens yes! It was fairly common practice to employ someone extra on washing day and I can imagine that the locals would have been happy to take up that sort of offer.....

Author:  Mel [ Sun May 30, 2010 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I find nothing wrong with the fact that Jo had servants (incidentally, the Queen, who must have millions of them was known to say 'I have no servants, but a very large staff') I some times think Jo needs more help with the numbers especialy in holiday time. But I do take issue with EBD's take on servants - especially Austrian ones and the blind adoration which could lead to exploitation. Anna, apparently won't have a vacuum cleaner, or possibly washing machine but surely Jo could insist? Surely the faithful servant like Anna would be obedient?

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sun May 30, 2010 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

cestina wrote:
I'm becoming gently riled by this thread :( I do think we are in danger of forgetting the period in which EBD grew up and the attitudes that were current then. No, it doesn't make it right, but it is hardly fair to blame EBD for being of her time (Slightly off-topic - it makes her ability to distinguish between Germans and Nazis even more remarkable.)


You are quite right to point out that her ability to distinguish between Germans and Nazis is worthy of note, particularly so given that it's not particularly common in children's books of the period. But I fail to see why it's less interesting or relevant to point out the instances where EBD is, quite frankly, a crashing snob in a way that's very much of her time.

And un-Christian, since you brought that up. The Anglican Church may well have been happily spouting idiocies about social class via particularly pernicious hymns etc, but the things EBD has Joey say to Ros Lilley about Mary and Joseph being a village girl and a carpenter show that she and her creator were perfectly able to distinguish between fallible, varying church teachings and the low social status of the Holy Family in the gospels!

I think everyone realises EBD was of her time in many ways, and no one is singling her out for particular blame. It's just interesting to tease out her attitude to servants from the series because it's a topic where her good intentions (Anna being treated 'like the family' apart from the fact she does all the work, the CS girls being trained to speak politely to Marie Pfeiffen etc) are also horrifically patronising and blinkered, and suggest, as someone else said up the thread, a distinct class anxiety of her own.

I also also don't think anyone is taking issue with the fact that major CS characters had multiple servants - it's certainly historically accurate for the pre-war books, though largely anachronistic by the end of the series - just the way EBD tends to construct them as robotic 'faithful handmaidens' who would lay down their lives for their mistresses etc. Or to construct them as hysterical/illiterate/club-footed negative stereotypes.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Sun May 30, 2010 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Thank you for that summary Cosimo's Jackel. It expresses very neatly everything I haven't been able to say with such clarity .. !!!

Author:  MJKB [ Mon May 31, 2010 12:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
And un-Christian, since you brought that up. The Anglican Church may well have been happily spouting idiocies about social class via particularly pernicious hymns etc, but the things EBD has Joey say to Ros Lilley about Mary and Joseph being a village girl and a carpenter show that she and her creator were perfectly able to distinguish between fallible, varying church teachings and the low social status of the Holy Family in the gospels!


I regard her reverence for the simplicity of the Holy Family as spiritually on par with her distinction between Germans and Nazis. I just think it's a pity that she didn't carry the former through to her attitude towards the CS servants.

Author:  Fiona Mc [ Mon May 31, 2010 2:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

In some senses I can understand Anna's blind devotion to the Maynards. When she had escaped Tyrol, whe had no where else to go but the school and Joey takes her in and offers her not only a home but a job and a safe haven. Anna is never interned during the War. And in a country which is fighting her own, she doesn't get looked down on or seen as the enemy by Joey or any of Joey's friends or family. That kind of stuff stays with you, I imagine, for years. On top of that, Anna loves the children. She's with them so much, she is a second mother or surrogate Mother and the children listen to her as much as they do their Mother.

Having worked as a live in Nanny for three years overseas, I know how blurred the lines become between work and family. I was considered a part of the family and worked on average 70hrs a week. Most overtime was usually asked at the last minute and weekends off were a novelty. That said, like Anna they would pay for trips away simply because I had worked so much lately and did a lot of lovely things like that. I know there is a part of you that hates the hours, but another part of you loves the family.

Anna would have been out of touch with her family for the entire War, I'm sure the Maynards became her surrogate family and it would have been hard to leave the children. That was the hardest part of my job, when I left. I never considered staying for the parents but I did for the children's sake. I'm sure Joey realised Anna's devotion but she'll never feel the same way about Anna that Anna does about her unless Anna is able to offer Joey what Joey did her during the War. There is an inequality that began with that

Author:  Miss Di [ Mon May 31, 2010 7:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Regarding modern ex pats having maids, it is very difficult NOT to have paid help in the house and garden if you are posted somewhere where it is the norm. You will be scolded severely and informed that the local economy depends upon you to support it by employing the appropriate number of people.

Author:  Alison H [ Mon May 31, 2010 7:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I can understand Anna's attachment to the children and even to Jo and Jack, but I wish EBD hadn't made it sound as if Anna left Tyrol "to reach her beloved Fraulein Jo"! It's understandable that Anna felt that her links with the CS made her a target for the Nazis and therefore decided to flee, but it sounds as if she left her family and friends and trekked halfway across Europe, in very dangerous times, just to be with Jo :? .

With Tom Evans, Jo herself says (to Nina) that she doesn't think Anna really loved him, so maybe saying that she couldn't leave the Maynards was just Anna's way of trying to let him down gently.

Although it's in a very Victorian/Edwardian noblesse oblige type way, there is a close relationship between the Bettanys and then Pfeifens in the early days, in the way that you might have got between a gentry family in a manor house and their tenants. Madge takes an interest in all Marie's brothers and sisters, several different members of the Pfeifen family work for the Russells, and I think Frau Pfeifen makes a cake for Madge's birthday on one occasion. We even see Jo and Eigen go off to rescue Rufus together, and we get the lovely description of Marie and Andreas's wedding (I'm not convinced about them inviting the whole school, but I suppose that was EBD's way of getting the reader in there, so to speak!). That only works whilst the school is small and more like a family than an institution, and whilst most of the staff come from one family, but it's nice in that it acknowledges that the Pfeifens are people rather than just cogs in the machinery of the school/Die Rosen.

Author:  Lyanne [ Mon May 31, 2010 10:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Mel wrote:
I find nothing wrong with the fact that Jo had servants (incidentally, the Queen, who must have millions of them was known to say 'I have no servants, but a very large staff') I some times think Jo needs more help with the numbers especialy in holiday time. But I do take issue with EBD's take on servants - especially Austrian ones and the blind adoration which could lead to exploitation. Anna, apparently won't have a vacuum cleaner, or possibly washing machine but surely Jo could insist? Surely the faithful servant like Anna would be obedient?


I always thought she'd be like my grandma, who wouldn't use the washing maching, tumble dryer or dishwasher my grandad bought for her as she didn't think they'd do the job as well as she could. When she went into hospital, my aunt used them all, but really grandad might as well have saved the money he'd spent on them and done something fun with it while they could. :(

If Jo had said 'Look Anna, you might not use them but when the children are home in the holidays they can use the vacuum cleaner/we'll use the washing machine then as there will be so much stuff to do.' Anna's repsonse might have been different.

Also, was Anna right to refuse them? We're not talking about the efficient machines we have now, but some that might have damaged the goods they were meant to be cleaning.

Author:  Mel [ Mon May 31, 2010 11:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I would have thought that the Maynards needed an industrial strength washing machine like ones in launderettes with all the people in the house - or did they send them to the laundry - in Interlaken? Anna must be about the same age as Jo so should really be young enough to move with the times. Query - did she have any friends on the Platz?

Author:  cestina [ Mon May 31, 2010 12:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I have no problem at all in believing in Anna's devotion to the family, and Jo herself. Nor indeed in Marie's. We have a example in my own family. My Bohemian great-grandmother had a "maid" for want of a better word, who was with her from the birth of her first child through to her death - 62 years. When my great-grandmother was dying she made her children promise that Kačenka would be buried with her in the family tomb and her urn is housed in the same niche as my great-grandmother's.

Family tradition has it that Kačenka turned down three offers of marriage because she would not leave her beloved mistress. When my great-grandmother was left a widow at the age of 40, with seven children to support, the youngest (my grandmother) just a tiny baby, it was Kačenka who kept the family going, even to the extent of not accepting any wages, just board and lodging for several years.

Author:  Fiona Mc [ Mon May 31, 2010 12:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Mel wrote:
I would have thought that the Maynards needed an industrial strength washing machine like ones in launderettes with all the people in the house - or did they send them to the laundry - in Interlaken?


What on earth for? We had an even larger family than the Maynards and my parents had the same washing machine as everyone else. My mother may have done more laundry, but it certainly wasn't industrial strength.

Author:  MJKB [ Mon May 31, 2010 12:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

What I object to in the Anna/Jo relationship is the almost complete subsumation of her very being into the family. Even if someone were prepared to 'adore' me I wouldn't feel comfortable with such adoration. We had a lady who worked for my grandmother and later for my mother. She was absolutely devoted to my grandmother, and it's been a wonderful experience for me to me to be able to hear from her about the lives of the grandparents I never knew. Apparently too, my grandmother thought there was nobody like Mary.Anyway, when Mary was with mom for a few years mom encouraged her to get out of domestic work and into the type of work where she could meet people. She ended up working in Findlater's, a food emporium which closed in the late 60s. She met her husband there and she married and had two children. Mom kept in touch with her and her family over the years, and I'm still in touch with her. She was so good to me when mom was in the nursing home suffering from dementia. She and another of mom's friends use to come with me on a Sunday to visit the nursing home. It was so much easier to go with Mary and Kitty than on my own.
I love the link she provides me with my forbears and the family history she can tell me about that I'd never know otherwise. I also flatter myself that she is fond of me and enjoys my visiting her. Sadly, she too is experiencing memory loss and I miss the connection with my mother very much. But to return to the point, it isn't the fact that Joey has a highly efficient housekeeper like Anna, many very ordinary families at that time had too, it is the authorial approval of Anna's total dedication to a family which is not hers and to which she does not really belong. If Anna was truly regarded as 'one of the family', she would have a very more emotionally equitable relationship with Joey similar, perhaps, to the one that Susan has with Anne in the Anneseries.

Author:  Alison H [ Mon May 31, 2010 1:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I think that ending up on the Gornetz Platz, which seems to be so isolated from everywhere else, has got something to do with it. In Tyrol, I'd think that Marie and Rosa would've been given time once a week to go and visit their family and friends in Briesau, and in Armishire I can imagine Anna going out several times a week to do the shopping. She must've got to know people in the village because she met a boyfriend there. On the Platz, no-one seems to go out at all except to take the kids and the dog for a walk: there's a one-off mention of Anna visiting some friends on a farm, but that's about it. No-one seems to have much chance to meet anyone who isn't associated with the CS and the San. The San must've employed a lot of domestic staff, just thinking about it, but they're never mentioned.

When I've written drabbles I've liked to think that Anna and Karen, who were both from Briesau and had known each other for years (and may have been related, although it's not clear) were close friends, but EBD never shows them together, and Karen seems to spend her holidays bottling fruit! & there's never any mention of Rosli's family, although presumably she was from the local area.

It would've been really nice to see some sign of appreciation for Anna ... maybe Len on her wedding day could've told Anna that all the Maynard children regarded her as a second mother.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Mon May 31, 2010 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I read this in Janie Steps In last night. Janie and Julian have gone away fro a couple of days, leaving Nan in charge. During this time Nanny has a call to say that her father is seroiusly ill and asking for her. She gets permission from Nan to leave at once to see him. On their return, this is what Janie and Julian say:

Quote:'What?' It came as a duet and Julian added, 'What on earth is she doing in London when she ought to be here here at Les Arbes?'
'She got a wire last night to say that her father was very ill and asking for her ... '
'But Nanny had no right to go off like that when I wasn't there!'
'Oh, come on, J.,' Julian said ... 'you know you'd have sent her off at once if you'd been there ... '

I have a couple of comments to make about this. First of all is J&J's intial response. They believe that the only place she should be is at Les Arbres. They speak as though Nanny has done a bunk to live the high life in London in their absence.
Then, Julian points out that Janie would have sent Nanny off if she had been there. This then comes across as though the point is that Janie, and Janie alone, has the right to give poor nanny 'permission' to visit seriously ill close family.

Absolutely ghastly.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Mon May 31, 2010 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
They believe that the only place she should be is at Les Arbres. They speak as though Nanny has done a bunk to live the high life in London in their absence.
Then, Julian points out that Janie would have sent Nanny off if she had been there. This then comes across as though the point is that Janie, and Janie alone, has the right to give poor nanny 'permission' to visit seriously ill close family.

Absolutely ghastly.


It's particularly strange from an author who's obsessed by ill health and sanatoria, and who is always staging deathbeds and health crises with loved ones gathering, or showing people giving up career plans because of someone else's illness or incapacity! It's hard to avoid the inference that the difference here is that this health crisis involves a servant, who needs to make a formal request for leave. It's also hard to believe it's from the same author who regarded Miss Bubb as inhumane for refusing to allow Gay Lambert leave to see family before a longterm wartime absence! Presumably she wouldn't have been as sympathetic if Nanny asked for leave, Nan refused, and Nanny then absconded to see her father...?

Author:  claire [ Mon May 31, 2010 7:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I don't see Julian's reaction as bad, more a 'what is she doing there? I don't remember her arranging leave. Oh father's ill I understand'

Author:  Mel [ Mon May 31, 2010 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

EBD isn't very consistent is she? I find the La Rochelles uncomfortable sometimes because you don't know how the characrers are going to react/behave. To be fair, Jo would have been sympathetic and done all she could if it happened to Anna. Which poses these questions. Was Nanny Austrian? And more importantly, did she adore Janie?

Author:  Alison H [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

British servants evidently weren't as good :wink: . We're told that Jo actively disliked Clara, the Bettanys' maid in Taverton - presumably the same maid who had the affrontery who ask for Christmas Day off. The Trevanions' maid is praised, but only to make the point that Eustacia can't do anything right because she upsets a maid whom everyone else likes.

Author:  MJKB [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 12:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Alison H wrote:
British servants evidently weren't as good :wink: . We're told that Jo actively disliked Clara, the Bettanys' maid in Taverton - presumably the same maid who had the affrontery who ask for Christmas Day off. The Trevanions' maid is praised, but only to make the point that Eustacia can't do anything right because she upsets a maid whom everyone else likes.

I think, perhaps EBD never got over the General Stike of '26, and believed that pertness and independence in the working class should not be encourged.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 1:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Alison H wrote:
British servants evidently weren't as good :wink: . We're told that Jo actively disliked Clara, the Bettanys' maid in Taverton - presumably the same maid who had the affrontery who ask for Christmas Day off. The Trevanions' maid is praised, but only to make the point that Eustacia can't do anything right because she upsets a maid whom everyone else likes.


It's funny how important maids are - for once! - at the start of Eustacia, obviously in order to establish how awful Eustacia is! There's also that bit about how, after her mother dies, she 'settles down to play mistress in the big house' and her father 'lets her go her own way, much to the annoyance of the maids'. Now, obviously this is supposed to establish her as a dislikeable character, and how wrong her father is to allow her to run the house - but you can't help noticing that this (and the bit about Julia, the Trevanions' maid) are practically the only two times in the entire CS where a servant's (negative) opinion of someone is judged worthy of being noticed! (I wonder whether Joey's hatred of Clara the maid was mutual...?)

Also, I'm not sure what her father was supposed to do about Eustacia taking over the domestic reins - it sounds a bit lunatic to hire a housekeeper for a household of two (which is the only alternative I can think of, and which the maids might have been displeased by, too). And Elfie Woodward leaves school to housekeep for her father and brothers when she's only two years older than Eustacia is. I wouldn't have said that a teenager 'running' the household was necessarily an unsuitable thing for the period...?

Author:  MJKB [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
Also, I'm not sure what her father was supposed to do about Eustacia taking over the domestic reins - it sounds a bit lunatic to hire a housekeeper for a household of two (which is the only alternative I can think of, and which the maids might have been displeased by, too). And Elfie Woodward leaves school to housekeep for her father and brothers when she's only two years older than Eustacia is. I wouldn't have said that a teenager 'running' the household was necessarily an unsuitable thing for the period...?
.
Nor I, Katy Carr took over the housekeeping before she was 14. From her sick bed too! As a child reading that I couldn't understand why it was necessary to have a housekeeper with two perfectly reliable women already there, but apparently the Victorians did not regard servants as sufficiently intelligent to carry out tasks without delegation.
EBD can be fairly inconsistent. In one of the books, can't remember which, Mollie and Dick are visiting Canada, I think. But they regard Peggy as too young to have care of Daphine, a toddler at the time. Mollie herself was barely 19 when the twins came along.

Author:  Llywela [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
Also, I'm not sure what her father was supposed to do about Eustacia taking over the domestic reins - it sounds a bit lunatic to hire a housekeeper for a household of two (which is the only alternative I can think of, and which the maids might have been displeased by, too). And Elfie Woodward leaves school to housekeep for her father and brothers when she's only two years older than Eustacia is. I wouldn't have said that a teenager 'running' the household was necessarily an unsuitable thing for the period...?
MJKB wrote:
Nor I, Katy Carr took over the housekeeping before she was 14. From her sick bed too! As a child reading that I couldn't understand why it was necessary to have a housekeeper with two perfectly reliable women already there, but apparently the Victorians did not regard servants as sufficiently intelligent to carry out tasks without delegation.

A teenage daughter taking over the household on the death of her mother would have been completely in keeping with the period. My grandmother had to leave school at 14 to keep house for her father and siblings when her mother died - the father then lived with her for the rest of his life, even after she had married and had children of her own. To be honest, I think it's what would happen even today - the oldest child (or simply the one on the spot at the time) stepping up to help run the household after the death of a parent. It happened to a girl not much younger than me, about ten years ago - she lost her mother when she was about 19 and had two younger brothers, the youngest still in primary school, so stepped into the breach to help her father raise them.

But then again, I'm talking about ordinary working folk - how the higher orders might handle such situations is a bit outside my realm of experience. :wink:

Author:  Liz K [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

My parents looked after Gran (Mum's Mum) all their married life.

Author:  MJKB [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Liz K wrote:

Post subject: Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants Reply with quote
My parents looked after Gran (Mum's Mum) all their married life.
That would have been the norm then. But with regard to CS girls taking over the running of a household, their role would have been simply organising the help.

Author:  Fiona Mc [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
I read this in Janie Steps In last night. Janie and Julian have gone away fro a couple of days, leaving Nan in charge. During this time Nanny has a call to say that her father is seroiusly ill and asking for her. She gets permission from Nan to leave at once to see him. On their return, this is what Janie and Julian say:

Quote:'What?' It came as a duet and Julian added, 'What on earth is she doing in London when she ought to be here here at Les Arbes?'
'She got a wire last night to say that her father was very ill and asking for her ... '
'But Nanny had no right to go off like that when I wasn't there!'
'Oh, come on, J.,' Julian said ... 'you know you'd have sent her off at once if you'd been there ... '

I have a couple of comments to make about this. First of all is J&J's intial response. They believe that the only place she should be is at Les Arbres. They speak as though Nanny has done a bunk to live the high life in London in their absence.
Then, Julian points out that Janie would have sent Nanny off if she had been there. This then comes across as though the point is that Janie, and Janie alone, has the right to give poor nanny 'permission' to visit seriously ill close family.

Absolutely ghastly.


I think J & J react as they do more because all the kids are sick plus half the cousins and J & J's house is being used as the hospital. I can understand their reaction a little as Nan is left alone to look after them all, but a dying father kind of trumps it and Julian is aware of that and knows Janie would have done the same thing. Janie isn't thinking straight with the shock of hearing everything.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 9:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I can understand people's responses to my post about how J&J react to Nanny's disappearance in their absence, especially as they children are sick (are they sick when she leaves, or does that happen afterwards?).

But - their reaction in terms of 'she had no right to go' etc. is exactly how some of the ruling classes do behave, even today. I think I was reading it coloured by this understanding. Some employers still think that their employees have abdicated any right to theri own life utterly and completely in favour of whatever their employer requires of them. And it's that that is ghastly ...

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 10:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Llywela wrote:

A teenage daughter taking over the household on the death of her mother would have been completely in keeping with the period.


Well, yes exactly, which is why I find it interesting that EBD gives us the maids' disapproving reactions to Eustacia as mistress of the house. I appreciate it may have been more difficult to work under a new, young, inexperienced 'mistress' - and clearly we're supposed to imagine her as demanding or experimental - only EBD makes it plain elsewhere that good servants' responses to the requirements of the family are typically 'adoration' and in Anna's case, even anticipation of family needs which haven't yet been expressed. It takes a character so awful we are told in the first line of the novel that she is is an 'arrant little prig' to make the disapproval of servants in two different houses worthy of being recorded!

Other writers do take note of servants' opinions on a regular basis - like the opinionated-if-devoted Susan and Rebecca Dew in the AoGG books, both of whom have a strong influence on their employers - but EBD would never suggest for a second that Anna got annoyed when Joey kept inviting new people to come and live in wings of Freudesheim, or made disgusting experimental sandwiches!

I agree, Julieanne, that there's something chilling about Janie's feeling that Nanny had 'no right' to go to see her ill father without receiving explicit permission from her mistress - even if, or especially if, she would automatically have granted it. The children have Nan - and presumably other servants to lend a hand? - to look after them for the brief period before their parents return, and after all, Nanny's family is more important than her job. I think that's what my issue is - a servant seems to be seen as owing loyalty to her 'family' as well as - or over and above - her family.

Author:  MJKB [ Wed Jun 02, 2010 11:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
I agree, Julieanne, that there's something chilling about Janie's feeling that Nanny had 'no right' to go to see her ill father without receiving explicit permission from her mistress - even if, or especially if, she would automatically have granted it. The children have Nan - and presumably other servants to lend a hand? - to look after them for the brief period before their parents return, and after all, Nanny's family is more important than her job. I think that's what my issue is - a servant seems to be seen as owing loyalty to her 'family' as well as - or over and above - her family.

Even by the different standards of the time, thatis awful. I could understand an initial annoyance at nanny's disappearance until the reason for it had sunk in, but that isn't the case here. Janie's husband has to intervene at that point. And in the exerpt quoted, Janie doesn't express any concern at all for her employee's dying father, which is quite shocking. Janie seem to expect total dedication and commitment to the family, which includes placing their needs over and above the needs of her own family, even to the extent of waiting obediently for formal permission to attend to her sick father. The latest expression of that was the case of Paul Burrell, Diana's butler, whose relationship with his employer, beautiful and charming and charasmatic as she was, was seriously dysfunctional. No human being should be expected to subjugate herself/himself to another.

Author:  KatS [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Reading Rescue, I came across this quote, which I think shows an interesting and slightly different view:
Quote:
As they crossed the road, Jo said to Debby, "Debby - I may call you that, may I? - will it be possible for Miss Wychote to come over to us sometimes, do you think? We'd love to have her if she could."
"Debby's my name," said that person drily. "Yes, Ma'am, Miss Phoebe can come."


But also, Debby here seems to be to be seeing through, as it were, Jo's delightfully informal yet charming act. That "drily" suggests to me that she is well aware of Joey's presumption of superior status - she talks about "Miss Wychote", after all, and doesn't suggest that Debby call her Jo - and doesn't really buy into it.

Author:  MJKB [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

KatS wrote:
As they crossed the road, Jo said to Debby, "Debby - I may call you that, may I? - will it be possible for Miss Wychote to come over to us sometimes, do you think? We'd love to have her if she could."
"Debby's my name," said that person drily. "Yes, Ma'am, Miss Phoebe can come."


I wonder how Joey wouldhave reacted if Debby insisted on a preface to her name, as in "I'd prefer you to call me Miss Debby, but, as you are so much younger than I, I'm sure you'll have no objection to my calling you Joey."
KatS wrote:
But also, Debby here seems to be to be seeing through, as it were, Jo's delightfully informal yet charming act. That "drily" suggests to me that she is well aware of Joey's presumption of superior status - she talks about "Miss Wychote", after all, and doesn't suggest that Debby call her Jo - and doesn't really buy into i

I think you may be right there, which makes me wonder what EBD's is view here. How Debby expresses herself in this incident is very similar to the way Matron would.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 8:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'd like to think Debbie was covertly voicing dissent - or at least seeing through the famous Joey charm! - but for me, while her dryness is a welcome break from the robotic Perfect Servant Anna and her likes, Debbie is another EBD stock character, the older domestic or woman lower down the social scale with a gruff manner and a heart of gold. I'd see Matey as another of this type, and that gruff, decent ex-servant Granny character - can't remember her name - who moves with her family to Howells village in Gay.

Interesting point about Joey asking whether she can address Debby by her first name. Normally EBD is all about younger people respecting older people, with even Madge the independent-minded, modern headmistress curtsying to old Frau Mensch, but, despite the fact we're told Debby is quite an old woman, her humble status clearly doesn't entitle her to a respectful form of address, while Joey refers to the much younger Phoebe as 'Miss Wychcote' while talking to Debby. Social status seems to trump age.

Actually, that rubs in the distinction in status for me like nothing else, even Joey assuming, even while she asks, that she may call Debby by her first name, while not reciprocating - the fact that, even while talking to an old, faithful, long-serving housekeeper, who clearly loves Phoebe, Joey refers to Phoebe by her surname and title, as if it would be a bad example to use her first name to a servant!

Author:  sealpuppy [ Fri Jun 11, 2010 10:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I think it's yet another of those 'the past is another country' things.

I haven't got Rescue handy but I suspect Phoebe has mentioned Debbie by her first name only. Joey would be checking if this is how she wishes to be addressed - it's possible she might be/prefer Mrs/Miss Whatever. It's not patronising, it's being polite to an older woman, I think. Cooks in households seem to have adopted 'Mrs' at the age of 50 as a mark of respect, whether married or not. Debbie might have been jealously possessive of the 'Mrs Blank', for all Joey knows, and she's trying to get it right.

As for Miss Wychcote/Miss Phoebe, again I think this is Joey feeling her way. Miss Phoebe suggests a good deal more familiarity than Miss Wychcote, and I imagine Joey is trying to be tactful.

I've no idea how people addressed servants at that time, as I've said elsewhere, I'm Stephen's age! But I think Joey is trying her best here.

Author:  cestina [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 9:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I think Sealpuppy has it absolutely right and Joey is actually being extremely polite here. Phoebe will have said "Debbie"; it would not have occurred to her to call her anything else and Joey is being careful to double-check it's appropriate for her to use the name.

I was discussing with a 70 year old friend this morning how much the past is "another country", especially with respect to varying views on this Board. I find it fascinating. I am old enough to remember some of the old ways, both as regards class divisions and attitudes to staff and I don't find it nearly as offensive as some on the Board clearly do although I am very happy that we have moved on.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 10:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

cestina wrote:
I think Sealpuppy has it absolutely right and Joey is actually being extremely polite here. Phoebe will have said "Debbie"; it would not have occurred to her to call her anything else and Joey is being careful to double-check it's appropriate for her to use the name.

I was discussing with a 70 year old friend this morning how much the past is "another country", especially with respect to varying views on this Board. I find it fascinating. I am old enough to remember some of the old ways, both as regards class divisions and attitudes to staff and I don't find it nearly as offensive as some on the Board clearly do although I am very happy that we have moved on.


Oh, I agree Joey is being polite by the standards of the day, and am not suggesting anything else for a moment! It's those standards that interest me, not the fact that Joey is obeying them. I find them quite astonishingly offensive, personally - and I still feel the class system, slightly altered, is alive and kicking in the UK today - but it's interesting to look at how the 'rules' operate in a WWII-era novel. I think what's particularly interesting is being able to assume that, as Joey is EBD's ideal character, her behaviour towards servants is the way EBD considered servants should be treated by right-minded employers.

Maybe what's also interesting in the Joey-Debby interaction - as well as the 'dryness' - is that this is not Joey interacting with her own servants, but someone else's, someone who is not her employee. I think that's another thing to factor in in the consideration of modes of address here - what Phoebe and Debby call one another as employer and employee is surely a separate matter to the way in which a newly-arrived neighbour would address either of them...?

ETA - what I mean by the last point is, wouldn't Joey have addressed Debby entirely differently - presumably as 'Miss X'? - if she'd encountered her as an elderly neighbour in the village? Her social class would be unchanged, but not being in domestic service would change the terms...?

Author:  Lesley [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 11:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
ETA - what I mean by the last point is, wouldn't Joey have addressed Debby entirely differently - presumably as 'Miss X'? - if she'd encountered her as an elderly neighbour in the village? Her social class would be unchanged, but not being in domestic service would change the terms...?



That's quite likely - Reg's Aunt is of the same class as Debby yet she is addressed/referred to as Mrs Whatever so it must solely be that Debby is in domestic service.

Author:  sealpuppy [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 12:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Lesley wrote:
Reg's Aunt is of the same class as Debby yet she is addressed/referred to as Mrs Whatever so it must solely be that Debby is in domestic service.


I don't think so. The choice of how she is addessed is Debbie's. If she wanted to be Miss Blank, that's how people would address her. If she had been hired as a housekeeper she would definitely be Miss or Mrs Blank, but the difference here is that she is Phoebe's old nurse. That's why Joey is feeling her way, finding out Debbie's preference. As far as I can make out, some former nurses were still addressed as Nurse or Nanny, and visitors would have to check if they too were allowed this form of address.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 2:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

sealpuppy wrote:
Lesley wrote:
Reg's Aunt is of the same class as Debby yet she is addressed/referred to as Mrs Whatever so it must solely be that Debby is in domestic service.


I don't think so. The choice of how she is addessed is Debbie's. If she wanted to be Miss Blank, that's how people would address her. If she had been hired as a housekeeper she would definitely be Miss or Mrs Blank, but the difference here is that she is Phoebe's old nurse. That's why Joey is feeling her way, finding out Debbie's preference. As far as I can make out, some former nurses were still addressed as Nurse or Nanny, and visitors would have to check if they too were allowed this form of address.


But isn't there a difference between how someone in domestic service would be addressed inside and outside the household in which they work? The local shopkeeper wouldn't be likely to address Debby by her Christian name when she came into the shop, whatever Phoebe calls her at home, while someone visiting Phoebe's household while she was still a child might have legitimately addressed Debby as 'Nanny' or 'Nurse', while they were there because that was her function ...? And Joey wouldn't have even checked it was OK to call Debby by her first name if she was just a village neighbour, I imagine - the default then would have been a more formal address, unless otherwise invited.

How, for instance, would Joey's Anna have been addressed when she went into the grocery shop in Howells village?

Author:  MJKB [ Sat Jun 12, 2010 9:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Cosimo's Jackal wrote:
How, for instance, would Joey's Anna have been addressed when she went into the grocery shop in Howells village?


Interesting question. It can't have been easy in post war Britain to use the German preface 'Fraulein', perhaps she called herself 'Miss'. Susan Baker in AOI is called Miss Baker by some neigbours and friends, Rebecca Dew being one. The Canadians, a generation or two before the events in the CS, seem to have been a lot less class conscious than the British.

Author:  Alison H [ Sun Jun 13, 2010 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Anna is always described as a maid, whereas Marie Monier née Pfeifen, Madge's housekeeper, is described as a housekeeper. I'm not sure why Anna never got to be described as a housekeeper, unless it was just that EBD wanted us to think that the Maynards were less formal than the Russells.

Marie, Luise and Karen should all have been addressed as either "Cook" or "Mrs ..." when they worked at the school, but they never were, incidentally ... although the nameless cook in Tom, who may or may not have been Karen, is referred to as "Cook", and the Cochranes' cook is referred to as "Cookie".

Joey was being polite with Debby, but in Exile she rather rudely introduced Matron to Janie Lucy as "Matey" rather than as "Miss Lloyd", and poor Janie then had to address her as "Matey" because she didn't know her name!

Author:  violawood [ Sun Jun 13, 2010 5:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Alison H wrote:
".Joey was being polite with Debby, but in Exile she rather rudely introduced Matron to Janie Lucy as "Matey" rather than as "Miss Lloyd", and poor Janie then had to address her as "Matey" because she didn't know her name!


No, no - Janie had to address Matey as 'Matey' because Joey/EBD didn't know her name :D :roll: (I took Matey's name to be 'Lloyd' for ages because of the 'clear' reference in the Armada editions of Exile and because I hadn't then come across any of the titles where she's clearly Matron Gould (or Gowland or even Rider) - except when she isn't. And in the hb of Exile she's just as clearly 'Matron Gould'. :D :banghead: )

Author:  MJKB [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 12:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Do we know anything at all about Matron's background? Is she of a different class to the other CS stafff?

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 8:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

MJKB wrote:
Do we know anything at all about Matron's background? Is she of a different class to the other CS stafff?


I don't think we do, other than what little we know after her sister dies late in the series - she's always seemed quite an isolated figure, without many ties outside the CS.

I think it's strongly implied she's from a lower social class - in some ways, though not in all, oddly. The ways in which she's a stock character - the gruff exterior, 'sharp' face and continual scolding hiding a heart of gold etc - is in EBD almost exclusive to 'salt of the earth' working-class women, like Phoebe's Debby, the granny in Gay, Richenda's nanny, and Morag the bossy, Calvinist maid in Jean of Storms and others. And look at how differently she's described compared to the CS mistresses - they are all conspicuously pretty and trig/or stately, while Matey is only wiry and sharp-faced, and they change into 'pretty evening-dresses' at night, while Matey is only described as being out of her nurses's uniform once (that I can remember) in the entire series, and doesn't seem to sit in the mistresses' common room in the evening.

On the other hand, though, Matey doesn't have the Matron Webb problem of a loud, shrill not-genteel voice, and both Margot Venables and a CS Old Girl both become CS matrons, which hardly implies the kind of semi-servant status that is suggested at times by Matey's social positioning...?

Author:  Cel [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

And I think we do see her at times visiting Freudesheim or having coffee with Hilda and a select few of the 'elders' - so in some ways she does seem to be on a social par with the Establishment.

Author:  Mel [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 8:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I don't think there is any evidence that Matey is on the Staff proper, not the domestic staff. Presumably she trained as a nurse and can speak French and German.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Mon Jun 14, 2010 8:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Mel wrote:
I don't think there is any evidence that Matey is on the Staff proper, not the domestic staff. Presumably she trained as a nurse and can speak French and German.


She seems to exst in some hinterland between them! I'm never sure about her nursing qualifications - would Margot Venables have had any, to take on a similar position? And isn't there someone called 'Nurse' in some later books? And I'm racking my brains to think of any occasion on which it's implied that Matey is speaking French or German, which is a really good point! If she does, it would certainly set her apart from the rest of the domestic staff, and if she doesn't it would mean that every drawer inspection/scolding/dosing/tooth or health inspection had to happen in English, whatever the nationality of the possibly sick girl, or what day of the week it was ...?

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 9:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I've mentioned this before elsewhere, so please bear with me - something I find particularly interesting where Matey is concerned is that she apperently is educated to a lower level than the Staff proper.
This conclusion is based on a very small detail. The School is playing Subject and Object at one of their Saturday Evening things. The object is Cyrano de Bergerac's handkerchief. There's some discussion as to whether this would be 'vegetable' or not, then Matey asks who CdB is?
The girls rush to tell her.

Now. The Staff would have been educated to degree level. Matey would not, since nursing didn't go to that level at the time. The fact that her education seems to have left her with less knowledge of wider social understanding appears evident - to me, anyway! I admit it's a very tenuous conclusion to draw from such a tiny detil, but it comes across to me as if she certainly has been brought up in a narrower environment than the girls (and by default then the Staff), and that her education hasn't included the wider world.

So ... while she is on a different level to the housekeeping staff, she isn't on the same level as the Staff and girls. At the same time there is no-one else in the School who occupies her level. Even the nurses, becuase they aren't included in more School activities are placed outside the 'class' of the School at large. This means she occupies a very odd place. Readin it from a 'class' pov, I would place her in a class slightly below that of the Staff and girls, based on her 'lack' of education. And, of course, based on the descriptions of her, which do certainly seem to fit the remit of 'lower' classes than those of 'higher' classes.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 9:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
I've mentioned this before elsewhere, so please bear with me - something I find particularly interesting where Matey is concerned is that she apperently is educated to a lower level than the Staff proper.
This conclusion is based on a very small detail. The School is playing Subject and Object at one of their Saturday Evening things. The object is Cyrano de Bergerac's handkerchief. There's some discussion as to whether this would be 'vegetable' or not, then Matey asks who CdB is?
The girls rush to tell her.


That's a really telling detail, Julianne. Even though it's a small thing, I can't imagine EBD depicting one of the major mistresses as not knowing who Cyrano de Bergerac was, when a number of the girls do. In fact, there's even a mini stand-off when Lavender asks whichever geography mistress it is if she's ever climbed a volcano, as Lavender herself has! I think it's quite telling that EBD allows Matey to not know something, when the girls do...

Author:  MJKB [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

r.[/quote]
That's a really telling detail, Julianne. Even though it's a small thing, I can't imagine EBD depicting one of the major mistresses as not knowing who Cyrano de Bergerac was, when a number of the girls do. In fact, there's even a mini stand-off when Lavender asks whichever geography mistress it is if she's ever climbed a volcano, as Lavender herself has! I think it's quite telling that EBD allows Matey to not know something, when the girls do...
[/quote]

There is one more telling detail. Matron is the only member of the CS staff who never calls Madge by her first name. She always refers to her as 'Madame' even after Bill, Hilda and others are on first name terms.
The subject of the school matron's social position has come up before. The fact that Jem's sister and a past pupil of the school both occupy that post would imply that it is not regarded as beneath the rest of the teaching staff.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 9:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'm reading The House That is Our Own, by O Douglas, at the moment. It's really very good. I haven't read it before but what is interesting where this discussion is concerned is that there is a lot of talk about employing maids/housekeepers/companions, and what the employer will expect from them. It was first printed in 1940.

Although it's (obviously!) nothing to do with the CS, would anyone be interested to hear what she has to say on the subject? It would give us some more evidence of the thinking and expectations of the time which might help us understand the CS situation more. Since I don't want to clog the board up with totally off-piste information, let me know if you think it might be of interest!

Author:  cestina [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 11:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'd certainly be interested.......

Author:  RroseSelavy [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 11:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Please do post, Julieanne!

Re Matey: does this all suggest that she might occupy a similar class limbo as a governess might have done? The kind of position that's definitely not below stairs and is generally occupied by a gentlewoman (perhaps one in a state of genteel poverty), but which doesn't put its occupant quite on a par with her employers?

(I'm now desperately trying to remember which artist did the painting which shows a governess as stuck in exactly this vague position... had a feeling it was one of the pre-Raphaelites but I can't pin it down).

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 11:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

RroseSelavy wrote:
Re Matey: does this all suggest that she might occupy a similar class limbo as a governess might have done? The kind of position that's definitely not below stairs and is generally occupied by a gentlewoman (perhaps one in a state of genteel poverty), but which doesn't put its occupant quite on a par with her employers?


I think the genteel poverty explanation might well work for Margot Venables taking on a CS matron's job, assuming she's determined not to live off the Russells - but the way EBD characterises Matey as gruff, wiry, sharp-featured, and continually scolding, but with a heart of gold, is very much the way she writes women she might class as 'gentlewoman at heart' - the way Herr Braun is a 'gentleman at heart' despite being 'only a fat old Austrian hotel keeper' ( :banghead: ) - but not actual gentlewomen in terms of social status.

But then having a CS old girl take on an equivalent position - and the fact that the matron of St Scholastika's knows Miss Maynard and seems to be on socially equal terms with her - muddles the situation. It seems to only be Matey, out of all the matrons we meet, who gets that kind of slightly upper-servant-salt-of-the-earth characterisation. Although there are also suggestions - the loud voice etc - that Matron Webb might be lower-middle-class...?

Author:  Emma A [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 12:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I've just been reading Alison Uttley's 'The Country Girl' which I gather is a fictionalised telling of her own upbringing and early childhood on a farm in the later 1800s (it's not stated specifically, but Queen Victoria was still alive three years previously). The cast of characters at the farm is fairly small - Tom and Margaret Garland, and Susan their daughter; Joshua, Dan and Becky, who are all employees. Poor Becky doesn't even have a day off during the week (though she's allowed miniscule breaks out of her working day to talk to the man who's courting her), and she isn't supposed to invite anyone into the house when the Garlands are out. When they go to the fair, Dan harnesses the horse and trap for the Garlands, and then walks down himself...

Farm life sounds very hard - before the advent of mechanisation - and poor Becky seems to get the worst of it.

Author:  Alison H [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 12:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I think the loud voice definitely suggests that Matron Webb is of a lower social class than the girls and mistresses :roll: .

This is a bit OT - I was just thinking about Mlle Lepattre having worked as a governess - but in the early days the only girls who planned to get jobs were those whose parents couldn't afford to support them until they married/if they didn't marry, so to some extent they were all slightly lower down the social pecking order, or at least the financial pecking order, than most of the girls.

The way Matey is written definitely fits the stereotype of a old family retainer (I don't think there's an equivalent for school employees!) - heart of gold under a gruff exterior, utterly devoted to Joey, referred to by a nickname, etc.

Author:  Cosimo's Jackal [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 12:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Emma A wrote:
I've just been reading Alison Uttley's 'The Country Girl'.....


I loved that book when I was little! It's true the hired help have the most exhausting lives and almost no time off, but nonetheless appear to be perfectly content, EBD-style! (Actually, the way Becky is described reminds me of Gertlieb, the Mensches' smiling servant.) Doesn't Becky tell Gabriel, the handsome one-armed man who sells pikelets, that it's a 'hard place but a good one' to work in? (And is shocked at her own daring for inviting him in, and putting him in the 'master's' chair, rather than giving him a cup of tea on the doorstep!) I'd forgotten all those little social distinctions between family and hired help - is it the 'senior' hired man who eats sitting separately at the dresser, with separate cutlery etc?

I think that Mademoiselle LePattre's equivocal social position as governess at the start of Chalet is important. She's not happy with the family she works for, the daughter is apparently rude to her, and she 'adores' Madge for sticking up for her on some unspecified occasion. You strongly get the impression of someone without much power of any kind, who is thrilled at the opportunity to get out of her current situation and be in one that's less inegalitarian, even if she never expected - and possibly never wanted - to be Head of a large school.

But I think it's also important that this factors into her not being really an equal partner in the school, despite Madge's real affection for her, and the fact she's needed as a chaperone for the enterprise, as well as being on hand to do a lot of the donkeywork with Dick before Madge, Joey and Grizel arrive. The fact that Madge sort of rescues an older woman from governessing might, I think, for the original readers have 'normalised' the fact that the much younger woman, with no teaching experience, becomes Head, and is addressed as 'Madame', while the older, more experienced - and actually French! - woman remains 'Mademoiselle'!

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Ok. In The House That is Our Own:

First of all there is a discussion between Isobel and Kitty about the type of lady required:

Quote:
' ... a middle-aged woman would be best, who would take full charge ... I mean, cook, clean, wait, do everything? There's only me, so it wouldn't be a heavy place. ... Not elderly, you understand, just a sensible woman who would be gald to be settled and comfortable, and who wouldn't want to leave me alone too much in the evenings'.


There's only Kitty, yet she wants someone who will 'wait' on her (I assume that means to serve her meals at the table). She also wants some 'companionship', although that is very much on her own terms, as we shall see.
A 'companion' is suggested but is turned down because
Quote:
'She'd have to eat with me and sit with me, and I'd hate that. Besides, I'd need another woman to do the work'.

They decide a young woman wouldn't do because she'd always want time off to go out with friends.

I cannot understand the need to have any woman 'to do the work'. I live alone and although I can't believe how much work that takes in keeping a place clean and tidy, it's not too much. Kitty seems to want to be absolved of any 'work' at all.

Then:
Quote:
'It seems to me', said Isobel, 'that the thing that matters most is whether you like her personally. I don't think you could live in a house with another woman without a certain degree of friendship. A servant to you would always be more than just a person who did your cooking and cleaning, she'd be a human being in whom you were interested'
... 'I quite like Mrs Auchinvole, but I'm afraid she hardly understands that I don't want so much a sympathetic friend as one who will keep the flat clean, cook and wait a decent meal. There is too much of the we-are-widows-together about her for me'.
... 'Did you manage to broach the subject of uniform?'
... 'Prints in the morning, and a dark dress in the afternoon I insist upon ... she was a housekeeper before she was married, so she may have a cap and apron in her disposition'.
... 'She would give a sort of tone to the flat, go well with the family portrates, and the Georgian silver ... '
... 'I don't really think she can cook much, but an intelligent person ... can do a lot with a cookery book ... '
... ' ... Couldn't you call her a housekeeper? It's a come-down in a way, for a woman who's had a house of her own, to come back to domestic service, and I'd always address her as 'Mrs Auchinvole'.
' ... I shouldn't think of adressing her as anything else! The truth is, I'm an arrant coward with servants ... I can't have had any slave-owners among my ancestors - slaves, more likely.'


I feel desperately sorry for Mrs A, who has lost her independence, her husband and her own house and now has to become a housekeeper, living for the demands of her employer. What is also interesting is the obvious confusion and exactly what her role will be.
Isobel removes to Scotland (Kitty and Isobel had been living in a hotel together before Kitty decided to rent a place of her own). Kitty writes to her of Mrs Auchinvole's 'desire to be companion and friend rather than working housekeeper'.

Quote:
'Any weakening on my aprt ... would mean a suggestion that she bought in her work and sat with me of an evening, a thing I simply could not endure'.


Kitty has breakfast in bed - not because she wants it (actually she more dislikes it) but because her housekeeper, Mrs A,
Quote:
thought it an excellent thing to keep her mistress in her room until about ten o'clock, so that she might put the house to rights in a leisurely manner. What was the use, she thought, hurrying to get the dining-room ready for half a grapefriut, and tea and toast for one? ... Mrs A brought it in this morning, as she always did, with everything nicely arranged, the small silver teapot and jug shining, a rack of the crispest toast, marmalade and butter in tiny dishes, and the grapefruit carefully prepared ... she set the tray on the table by the bed ...


Kitty is a widow, as is Mrs A. Kitty says she is poor, but she still manages to rent the house in Sloane Sqaure, for goodness sake!, have alterations done to the plumbing, have the house redoecortaed, and pay someone to act as housekeeper. Mrs A, on the other hand, has lost everything and has had to find work as a housekeeper. This makes her dependent on keeping her position in order to have somewhere to live.

As regards accommodation for the maid, there is a bedroom which will have a gas-fire installed, and the kitchen.

Kitty and Isobel talk about what a nice position it will be for a 'nice' woman to come and work for Kitty. After the interview they have this discussion:

Quote:
' ... she seemed very pleased to come'. 'Oh yes, and she had no uniform complex at all; said she'd never think of wearing anything but a dark dress in the afternoon, and seemed positively to like an apron - said it was a 'freshener.' Of course, she feels that she's quite out of the way of domestic service, but ...'
'Did she like the flat?'
... ' ... she thought highly of the kitchen and her bed-sitting-room. The gas fore especially appealed to her ... I can see she's keen on housework ... she looks a fresh, wholesome creature ... She did say it would be a treat to have a place of her own ... she likes to sew and knit ... I shan't expect perfection, neither must she'.
Isobel said, 'My only fear is that you will spoil her ...'
'I could see her settling down for a nice confidential chat, so I got up and said I was sure she'd like to see her own room and the kitchen'.
'Oh yes, but once you've listened to the complete story of her life, that'll be that. You can keep clear of it afterwards'
'... I don't want to seem uninterested or unkin, and I'll certainly listen with patience ... to one recital, but she must understand that she's a working housekeeper not a companion'.


All-in-all we have a fit, single woman wanting to have someone to wait on her, on her terms. While she is paying and so dictates the conditions, the employee is dependent on keeping her job in order to have somewhere to live - this is in the days before council housing and so on. It also highlights the uncertainty of what the job entails. It's evident that Kitty doesn't set out the conditions at the point of employment - poor Mrs A wants to chat but Kitty doesn't. Kitty doesn't tell her , but instead moves in a way that gives the message non-verbally. I wonder how lonely Mrs A was?

I can see a lot of similarities between the expected role of Mrs A with CS servants and maids - what the employers expected, I mean. In both cases the employers appear to have no understanding of the precariousness of their servants' lives - shelter in exchange for work done as the employer requires it to be done. And since the requirements aren't actually spelt out it seems that it might be easy for the servant to make a mistake which a less 'nice' emplyer might pounce on.

Another book that exposes difficulties from the employees pov is A Pair of Hands, by Monica Dickens. She would have been the same, or higher class than many of her employers when she worked as a maid through an agency before the 2WW. She had been to Drama School, failed rather badly, and decided to work, although she didn't need to. She had a Cordon Bleue cooking certificate, and she took on the various jobs as if she was 'acting' them - she gave herself 'lower class' names and acted as if she was uneducated, since she dodn't wnat her em[loyers to know that she wasn't what she presented herself as.
Anyway, some people were good, some were bad. And she certainly experienced some dreadful conditions and expectations from some of the people paying her.

Author:  Emma A [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 6:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

That's really interesting, julianne. Your quotes seem to indicate how unsure of herself Kitty is - it sounds as though she's never had a servant before, and doesn't quite know what she should be looking for. I do agree that it seems an awfully restrictive (and high-handed) list of requirements, and one which I think betrays her own fears. I think that if she had been used to servants she would know what she could expect, too.

It does come across as a very one-sided relationship, but perhaps they got on better when they were more used to each other (after all, Mrs A bringing her breakfast in bed rather than setting up the dining room for a sit-down breakfast appears to show that Kitty doesn't have it all her own way).

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Yes - I only about less than a quarter of the way through the book so far, so we shall see. There is the suggestion that Kitty and Mrs A go up to Scotland to help Isobel sort out the house she has bought there, but Mrs A refuses, so Kitty, for some reason, feels that she is unable to go either. Poor Isobel is left alone! She, too, is looking for help and she has employed a married couple - him to garden and her to cook etc. They have a 6 year old boy who will attend the village school.
There is some discussion as to whether or not she should employ them as they have a child, and the mother says that if it's not possible for him to come, she will leave the little boy with relatives in Glasgow ... the father lost his job when his long-term employer died of old age, and so they are desperate for work which will give them somewhere to live as well.

It all sounds so awfully sad ...

Author:  sealpuppy [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

In the mid-seventies there was a hit sit-com, Butterflies, starring Wendy Craig. She was a dentist's wife, with 18 year old twins who lounged around at home. The husband came home to lunch and they had a daily woman every weekday, from what looked like 9-5. The wife didn't work, or do any voluntary things, nor did she cook. Her bad cooking was legendary. So, poor dear, she went off and found a semi-platonic lover.

The idea, I think, was that the viewer was supposed to feel sorry for her and in some ways, some of her problems did resonate with 70s women. But it always made me furious that she had all this time on her hands (no hobbies) and hadn't gone on a cookery course, or volunteered for some charity or other.

Anyway, that's slightly OT but not really - that was a Carla Lane sit-com and hugely popular.

Back to Phoebe and Debbie: I'm comfort-reading my Miss Silver mysteries at the moment and they're exact contemporaries of some of the CS books - Miss Silver books range from 1928-61. Although some of the cases land Miss S in a stately home, the majority have a household on a budget, with one general servant, very much like Phoebe.
These servants fall into two categories: on the one hand the housekeeper/daily general help who is always addressed as Mrs Blank, both by employers, neighbours, villagers and police (they're cosy crime novels, after all).

The second category, always live-in, is very like Debbie, a former nurse who has been with the family for a long time. This woman is usually addressed by the family by her first name, but by everyone else (including Miss Silver, as Miss/Mrs Blank: this is invariable).

When Joey asks Debbie if she may call her by her first name, I'm quite sure it's because she doesn't know her surname and is simply asking Debbie what she would prefer Joey to call her.

(Similar situation, in a way: I was out with a friend a while back and she needed to drop in on her 80something mother briefly. She forgot to tell me her mother's name and there was a visiting aunt who naturally called her Freda, or whatever. I spent half an hour carefully avoiding calling her anything, certainly not Mum or Freda, and sort of mumbled when we left hoping her poor hearing would assume I'd said: thank you Mrs X for my nice cup of coffee!)

Author:  Mel [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 7:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

That account was quite fascinating by O Sugar. It sounds as though Kitty is hanging on to the last vestiges of 'gentility' by demanding uniform, waiting at table and definitely not wanting Mrs A's comapany in the evenings. It seems to be all about status and not letting standards drop. If it was published 1940, then all that was thankfully blown away by WW 2. I get the impression from reading fic and non-fic that servants had a much better deal in the large houses with squads of servants. Everyone knew their role (if not their place!) there was often a career ladder and good food and companionship below stairs. To be cook/general (as Monica Dickens was) meant being a dogsbody, doing everything.

Author:  MJKB [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 8:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

sealpuppy wrote:
In the mid-seventies there was a hit sit-com, Butterflies, starring Wendy Craig. She was a dentist's wife, with 18 year old twins who lounged around at home. The husband came home to lunch and they had a daily woman every weekday, from what looked like 9-5. The wife didn't work, or do any voluntary things, nor did she cook. Her bad cooking was legendary. So, poor dear, she went off and found a semi-platonic lover.

Funny you should mentionButterflies I've been watching it recently and take your point. I like the character Wendy Craig plays but she certainly had a life of extreme ease. Most women nowadays who work would feel all their birthdays had come together if they had a cleaner even once a week, never mind every day. And if we are accusing EBD several decades earlier of stereotyping, then the producers of Butterflies and other sitcoms of the 70's and 80's should come in for their fair share of censure. The servant/master relationship seems to have survived right into the late 20th century in Britain, although many people at the time probably believed it had been relegated to the past. To the Manor Born in the middle 80's is overt about the servant role, and even the Goods in The Good Life are true to their middle class status when working class characters are around.

Author:  sealpuppy [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

In recent years I've read several articles proclaiming that domestic service is alive and well in the UK, it's just changed slightly; this is probably based particularly on London but not solely.
I know of quite a few working mums who have either a nanny (usually p/time) or childminder as well as a cleaner. Plus I've seen adverts offering to do your ironing; your dog walking; clean your oven. Add to that a gardener and it's quite a comprehensive range of services. All domestic service, but with a very different slant and mostly (give or take the headline cases) a different attitude on both sides, employer and employee.

Author:  MJKB [ Wed Jun 16, 2010 10:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

sealpuppy wrote:
All domestic service, but with a very different slant and mostly (give or take the headline cases) a different attitude on both sides, employer and employee.

Its definitely a case of the shoe being on the other foot.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I think this is what disturbs me so much ... within the 'normal' job market, one's job is well- hedged round with a job description and hours of work and holiday allowance. One is paid and in return one provides what the employer has paid for. What they have paid for is set in stone to a high degree.

But domestic service is considered to be informal. The employer pays, but what they have paid for is the life of the employee.

Of course in CS times one wouldn't expect job descriptions and so on, and I guess the whole working situation was ifferent - I'm rather imposing present conditions on the past. But it's the fact that the situation persists today that upsets me. It's the attitude of some who have domestic help, and their belief that the help is of a lower status than they which upsets me.

Author:  Mel [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

It's the 'live-in' domestic help, either now or in the past which always seems the worst - permanently on call and poor wages, because you are receiving bed and board.

Author:  RoseCloke [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 11:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
But domestic service is considered to be informal. The employer pays, but what they have paid for is the life of the employee.


There's an advert on my university job pages at the moment from an English family advertising for a 'tutor and personal companion' in Greece. It chimes in very well with the rest of this thread. Here are the highlights:

Quote:
Salary £25,000 gross (tutor responsible for own tax & NI);
Accommodation provided, own bedroom with possible shared bathroom; Term Time: 5 hours per day plus full days at weekends. 7 days per week in term time and a minimum of 35 hours per week; Food not included, unless eating with family; Occasional use of car. Candidate will be required to take a driving test at client's cost to confirm ability prior to any offer of a position; 20 days holiday plus Bank Holidays to be taken at a time as agreed with the Family. This would usually be in the school holidays; £2000 pa. benefit to cover personal travel to the UK. The tutor would be paid this sum upfront and it would be up to them to organise and pay for the tickets. Duties: Pupil attends a school in Thessaloniki and the tutor will be responsible for managing the school year, grades, essays, Greek, English, cultural activities, planning, ensuring suitable environment for studying for the pupil etc.; Tutor will be required to travel with pupil either to or from locations, and to accompany him sometimes on school trips.; The tutor will be responsible for organising sailing lessons and other sporting activities.; The tutor will be responsible for organising the pupils' piano lessons and ensuring a good schedule that leads to examinations and measurable progress.; Tutor must be totally flexible for the family e.g. help with moving house, sorting out child's equipment etc. Must be a part of the team. Requirements:Must excel in Maths; Must be fluent written & spoken English (& conversational Greek very useful as will be living in Greece).Child can be taught in English. French language is also desirable.Grade A at A Level Maths. Maths degree desired.; Required to teach English to A level standard and above.; English / Literature; Energetic; Highly flexible; Non smoker; Will be required to sign a contract & confidentiality contract.


The boy is described as being "intelligent" and "energetic" with a "strong character". I don't know about anyone else, but that rather sounds like code for 'spoilt brat'!

I also love how it's primarily described as an educational role, but there's a clause covering general dogsbodying and you'll be held to account for lack of suitable progress in lessons - even if the child refuses to work! What a miserable job! :( It also sounds like his parents have nothing to do with him...

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 12:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

RoseCloak - I stopped breathing as I read on ... not breathless, but complete apnoea ...

Author:  RoseCloke [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

julieanne1811 wrote:
RoseCloak - I stopped breathing as I read on ... not breathless, but complete apnoea ...


I do wonder where they're going to find someone fluent in English and French, with conversational Greek, a Maths degree, A level English and the patience and talent to put up with their child as well as being hyper-organised and generally willing to put up with their conditions! Surely someone that able would get a better job?

Author:  Sarah_G-G [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

RoseCloke wrote:
julieanne1811 wrote:
RoseCloak - I stopped breathing as I read on ... not breathless, but complete apnoea ...


I do wonder where they're going to find someone fluent in English and French, with conversational Greek, a Maths degree, A level English and the patience and talent to put up with their child as well as being hyper-organised and generally willing to put up with their conditions! Surely someone that able would get a better job?


That's exactly what I thought! Also, is it just me or are they essentially asking for a cross between an extra parent and a PA for a small boy..? And yup, "strong-willed" sounds like code for spoilt and stubborn to me as well. :? And to be honest I'd imagine you'd want more than conversational Greek if you're going to be living out there and dealing with the child's various tutors, especially if the boy is fluent himself. This bit makes me wince as well: "Must be part of the team." That's the bit that sounds to me like they're wanting a third parent. I didn't know people advertised for Annas any more!

Author:  KathrynW [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

The last line in particular makes me think that the family are either pretty well off or quite well known in which case I'd imagine they could afford to pay more than £25k!

Author:  Millie1986 [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Sarah_G-G wrote:
I didn't know people advertised for Annas any more!


They absolutely do - just look at some of the Nanny jobs on Gumtree; particularly those overseas, although some of the UK ones are pretty bad. And you would be suprised how many of these jobs say 'Fully Staffed Household'. Who has a fully staffed household nowadays?! Here is another example

Quote:
High-profile Saudi Arabian family with two daughters aged 4.5 years & 13 months are looking for a loving, nurturing & mature Nanny to take sole charge of the older child only.
The family's main home is in Khobar, Saudi Arabia (Persian Gulf coast near Bahrain) with second residence in London's Sloane Square area. They also frequently travel locally and internationally - around 2-3 months in the summer (Europe, US etc.) and app. one month in winter.
The Nanny will be responsible for the older child who also attends pre-school; there is a nanny for the younger one who will stay on for at least another year. Working hours will be 6 days for 12 hours a day with time off being negotiated as needed and the nanny will also need to be 'on call' at night time. No other duties than childcare (teaching English, activities etc.) will be involved as this is a fully staffed household and the nanny will have help available to her all day.
Salary offered is £600 per week net, negotiable.
This is an excellent position with a nice and genuine family looking for a dedicated, caring nanny to become part of their family


So that one is 12 hour days, plus on call nights. Another advert I particularly liked says

Quote:
The younger boy is very gifted and speaks three languages already; it is therefore important that the Governess can challenge him, stimulate his development and spark his learning interest


He needs to go to the CS! There was also one that said you couldn't get motion sickness from boats...

Author:  RoseCloke [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 4:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Millie1986 wrote:
Quote:
The younger boy is very gifted and speaks three languages already; it is therefore important that the Governess can challenge him, stimulate his development and spark his learning interest


Why are all these people having children if they can't look after them?! :shock: If I had a child that bright, and I had enough money to pay a governess' wages, I'd pay myself the salary and revel in his enjoyment and discovery of life! And I speak here as someone firmly entrenched in the 'No Offspring And No Desire To Have Any' camp :shock:

Millie1986 wrote:
He needs to go to the CS!


One of my Middle Eastern friends revealed the other day that he went to boarding school in Switzerland, ostensibly for the international, multilingual education. In reality they spent most of their teenage years sneaking out of school into town to cadge cigarettes off the locals :lol:

Back (slightly) OT, it does depress me how little has changed - I have a book called A Diary of an American Au Pair, which I thought would be similar to The Devil Wears Prada, but it was hands down one of the most depressing reads ever and I read it the once, never to pick it up again. The family insist she's part of their family, but in reality call on her all hours of the day and night for unreasonable tasks, penalise her and their children are unbelievably entitled. She has little respite and no means of getting back at them. I hate the way ostensibly 'liberal' people hire staff and treat them like dirt, yet get up in arms about poor treatment of people elsewhere. It's a horrible hypocrisy - like expats in Dubai and Abu Dhabi who take advantage of low-waged Filipino staff in a way they would never countenance at home (not saying this is everyone, but I've heard and read some shocking stories) :evil:

Author:  Cel [ Thu Jun 17, 2010 5:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

I'll take the nanny job with the Saudi Arabian family, please. The Greek one sounds horrendous. As does the precocious child...

Author:  sealpuppy [ Fri Jun 18, 2010 12:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Saudi one sounds like royalty - there are lots of Saudi princes, aren't there? I suppose £600 per week nett would add up nicely if you could stand a year or two of it, but you'd need to be a very calm kind of person! Even then, I wouldn't take on the Greek brat.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 12:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

This is nothing to do with the CS, but I am so angry I had to write it somewhere ...

You might remember that I was talking about the wife of my emplyer, who treats his two full-time carers disgracefully? At the moment she is finding the carers from Poland, having exhausted Australia, South Africa and the UK, and having been black-listed by agencies in these areas. The couple employed at the moment is married. They are young and fit, which is a good thing since her husband's care needs are physically exhausting - he is supposed to have a strict regime of exercises, including swimming at least once a day, as well as the usual washing (him and all his clothes and all the household linen), cooking (him and family and guests and any family events) shopping (massive shops) driving (him to various appointments, up to 40 miles in distance) taking the dog to the vet (regularly) and so on ans so on and so on ...

Their daughter is getting married tomorrow. The reception will be at their home in the garden. There is a gardener employed ad hoc. The garden is cottage-style, but large and although they had a full-time gardener and housekeeper (plus the two carers) years ago, they now only get in the gardener as and when. Having very unpleasantly 'disciplined' (on extremely flimsy charges - that he hadn't answered a phone call from her at 10pm on a Sunday night when he was in the pub with friends. He called her back as soon as he got home), the last FT gardener, who then also lost his living arrangements, since the job came with a tied cottage. Which they now rent out to get more money.

A few days ago The Woman (who will from now in becalled called by TW) very strangely told the carers that they could have 2 hours off and they should go for a meal to a local pub, and she gave them £60 for this. Our first (the girl carer and my) thought was 'what's going on?'. Well, it has since become all too clear. Having 'treated' her two extremely over-worked employes thy are now expected, on top of all their other work, to help the gardener. And it's not a little bit of gentle snipping of dead-heads, or weeding - they both look exhausted, working from 7am until 10pm or later, trying to ensure that the usual work gets done as well as preparing the house to hotel standard for guests who will be staying, preparing meals for the 10 children who will be staying etc. etc. etc.

TW is a truly toxic person. Having told the girl carer to pick her up at the station yesterday, she then rang to tell me that a driver would be arriving for the Jag, and that we should give him the keys. Her husband asked me ask her 'what for?'. I did. SHort silence, then 'so do that, please'. She wouldn't tell me. When the driver arrived her husband and I 'interrogated' him (her husband has a great sense of humour and is a truly delightful man), and we found that he was to drive the 40 miles to London to pick up TW and bring her back. SHe never did tell the female carer that she didn't need picking up at the station, and as the FC said - 'she's hoping to arrive here unexpectedly and cach us out'. I believe she was right.

TW has arranged all joint financial concerns to be put into her name only, she collects the rent from their properties to go into her account, and still her husband has to pay the property management fees out of his reduced account.

Talking to her a while back she said to me 'he's not a lunatic yet' My reply was 'But P, why would he be? That's never likely to happen'. She has no understanding of the illness her husband has, and now that she has full PoA, he is at her mercy. In my mind it is she who is mentally unstable and needs someone to have PoA over her ...
I know that sounds harsh, but I've been ther years now. I have seen young women (mostly) arrive and very quickly taken apart by her behaviour. I have listened to girls crying on the phone becuase of what she has said to them. And I have never, ever seen any evidence that her treatment of them is justified.

TW doesn't understand that the carers are paid in arrears, for work they have already done. She seems to believe that if she pays, she 'owns', and they are to do her every whim.

Yes. Poor treatment of employees is alive and well in the UK in the 21st centuary.

Author:  Amanda M [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 6:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

TW sounds an absolutely toxic person Julieanne. I feel so sorry for the husband. I really don't know all the ins and outs but is there any possibility he could be classified as a vulnerable adult? I really wonder if social services or somebody should be getting involved - especially if there's a possibility of financial abuse.

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 8:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

But you know what? The husband is truly a lovely man to work for. He is a proper old-fashioned gentleman. But - this situation is much of his own making. He has never said 'no' to her, never challenged her, alsways given her what she wants ... He is absolutely faithful to her, never says a negative thing about her and, more and more, refers me to her for all sorts of simple things like paying bills. I kind of respect this. But it's that that has partly created the present situation.

She can reduce even her daughters to tears and sobbing, and he won't interfere. So the PoA has been set up with his full collusion and agreement. The really odd thing is that he, despite his dreadful physical limitations, is all there mentally, while TW is truly insane.

Well, at least I earn a bit of money there, and then can come home again, so I'm out of most of it. She got so that she was continually ringing me up, but the last time I declined to answer her questions and said that 'I will sort it out on Monday when I come in', and then put the phone down on her, after wishing her a nice weekend. She hasn't rung me at home since.

That is something I learned from the Chalet School books - that if someone is in the wrong, if you retaliate, then you'll be the one in the wrong. But if you don't respond in like manner, it's the other person who has to carry the burden of being rude, or whatever.

Author:  sealpuppy [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 1:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

This sounds truly dreadful, Julianne. Would it be possible to get the daughters together with the husband so they could agree on some kind of intervention? Even if TW reduces her daughters to tears, they ought to take some responsiblity for all this. Maybe it's time for one of those anonymous calls to social services? I'm sure people were being encouraged to ring in if they were worried??

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

The answer is, sadly, 'no'. It's simply not an option. I don't know if it's because he is desperate to maintain his 'solid family' in society, or what. Any even perceived critisism of TW is jumped on (by him) firmly. I am aware that his accountant, with whom I have a fiar amount of contact, and we get on well, and the 'family solicitor', who has been with them for aeons, are both aware of the situation. It's sad - they have created this situation themselves, and now they are all having to live with the results.

Author:  sealpuppy [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 3:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Oh dear, people have to make their own beds and lie in them, so to speak! But one day, one of those put-upon young carers is going to sue for unfair dismissal, and then the balloon will go up!
What a pity TW didn't go to the CS and learn the ways of a gentlewoman! :)

Author:  julieanne1811 [ Sat Jul 03, 2010 5:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

She'd be more a Miss Bubb (although lacking the academic ability)!

Author:  JennieP [ Sun Jul 04, 2010 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The lot of CS-Land Servants

Reverting slightly up the thread, I've actually just stopped working asa governess (travelling + multilingual) to a similar family. Hell on wheels, would be my best description. Though I couldn't help feeling sorry for the poor children. When I arrived they were 6 and 9 and I was governess/nanny/au pair number 13. The parents were not known as the Crackpot-Crazies for nothing. Every whim had to be catered to - in advance of them having it... It was the butler I felt *really* sorry for: having a PhD and other occupations meant that I got some respect and less shat upon from a great height, but he was at their beck and call literally day and night.

All times are UTC + 1 hour
Powered by phpBB © 2000, 2002, 2005, 2007 phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/